Howdy guys, I've been having problems with my Game, and I don't know what the hell is up with it. Pretty much any girl I pick up, in the start of me gaming her, is very attracted to me, I use DHV, everything. But, I think I may be displaying a little bit too much energy. It's a issue, and with several girls, infact I normally kiss close girls that night of meeting them within twenty minutes, My opening attraction, and DVH is rock solid.

One girl said I was "too open" I literally, when I'm in the field, talk to everyone guys girls, in the club I give high fives, Whats up guys? I display too much energy I think, I'm not sure, but after some time passes my stage two of the game goes to shit.

It's just hard for me, I'm looking for a good girlfriend, and I can sleep with, and make out with a girl that night, it's just not working out in the long run. And I've picked up over ten girls with my pickup skills.

Any advise, or comments? I can explain in more detail if needed.

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"He is in command of my actions and seems to
be the leader of the men." -The Secret Garden, Women Sexual Fantasies.

"“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them” ~Neil Strauss

Anyone able to offer advice?

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"He is in command of my actions and seems to
be the leader of the men." -The Secret Garden, Women Sexual Fantasies.

"“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them” ~Neil Strauss

I would say the problem is that maybe you are not building enough rapport.
they are attracted to you and making out with you but they don't know ur sensitive side. after attraction comes rapport and comfort so they can trust you enough to have sex and be ur gf. You are only showing the playful attractive player side of you so to balance it out u need ur other comfort rapport side

A key step alot of guys skip is qualifying. After attraction, set up hoops for her to game you. "Do you have a fun personality", "are you spontaneous".

PurpleLight,

It seems to me from what you've said is you're setting up the frame as the fun club guy. You're building attraction and social proof from speaking to everyone but you're not bringing anything deeper and more meaningful to the girls you want. You're basically just a bit of fun.

I'm in agreement with Loc Ness and farismagic. You need to get her to invest in you by setting up hoops for her to game you as Loc stated. Then reward her by showing her your interest in who she really is. If you're looking for a girlfriend out of this then decide what makes a girl, girlfriend material to you personally. Once you've figured that out you should ask questions that lead her to tell you if she meets that girlfriend criteria or not. Ask her what she wants out of life etc... Or if you're still pretty routine based then elicit her values. Basically, if you're trying to get something more longterm then you need to get these girls to feel they have earned your genuine interest in who she is and that there is a genuine connection beyond just looks.