I got a question regarding number 1.

There's this girl who invited me to go ice skating with her and her friends. The day was never solidified, she just said sometime next week. Well it's Wednesday and being as Christmas is this weekend I'm wondering when we will end up going. She messages me and makes small talk occassionally. Should I ever initiate chat and/or ask if she ever decided a day for the ice skating? Or should I just wait?

for # 2 What if you legitly like and agree with a lot of what she's saying. Last two day 2's I've had both ladies had similar music taste, movie, and life experiences. We had great convo's just wasn't very challenging for her and I actually dig it when I can apply this idea (to not agree with everything she says). Would you suggest disagreeing with a few things even if I actually do?

Bitch slap o' truth right there

Tease her

call bullshit


'no way you like that aswell, you're just saying that for me to like you'


just an example.



I wouldn't disagree for the sake of disagreeing.

shit's fake.

Wait for what?

lol,

You're already experiencing where half-arsed meet-ups get you.

Nowhere.

Time to take matters into your own hands.

For the first time ever today I didn't just go along with what the girl was saying, I was talkative throughout the whole meetup and I seemed to get a lot more Kino than normal because of it.

I failed to kiss close, and I'm absolutely pissed with myself for that because I failed for absolutely no reason! But other than that, I feel my game has improved slightly.

Thanks Vaj

This is exactly why I deleted my Facebook, I'm also too busy for setting in front of the computer writing new statuses... Amen to the post.

i dont build comfort online really but txt i do for sure.

generally its after a first date... and you can totally build comfort through text..
its just easier after a date with her first.
ive done it a million times... im fine doing it in person too but i dont agree txting isn't a viable option in the interim. i do agree texting for the sake of texting is dumb. but if you bridge it to a day3 at your apartment the next night... whats the prob?

the other points i agree with...

if you're good at text game yes its EASIER because you can build comfort with 7 girls in one day.. the key is when youre in person you HAVE to be the same personality.. i am.. so works great for me...im a fan of easier....and efficient.

you just dont go to far and create unrealistic expectations. im always VERY sarcastic and hilarious in texts.... always... minor serious bits thrown in randomly.

PS: if you SUCK at bulding comfort in person. then i DO suggest tossing your phone and online accounts and get good at that first... cuz altho technology is improving daily... you still need to be together in real life to have sex... if you suck at in person comfort you will blow it when you see her next anyway.

Read what I wrote again, that's what I was aiming at.
Yep, again. This is what I was aiming at.

Get good in person and that'll automaticly translate itself into your phone/text game.

But this doesn't apply to you when you're still scared to make a move on her.