Hi guys im a new member here and new to the PUA game. Im just out of a long 3 year relationship and trying to get back into the game. One problem. Been texting this girl on and off now the past week or so. Shes just out of a 1 year relationship herself. I was talking to her one night and got her number from her on facebook the next day. I just log into facebook there and i see one family request. She added me as her brother! What do i do? Am I in the friend zone? If i am how do i get out? advice or help much appreciated and thanks in advance.

I would be like, "Haha, now why would you add me as your brother. It would be a pain having a sister". You can just say that out of nowhere. You don't have to say, "I noticed you added me as your brother..."

just did that she replied: but its me, not just any ould sister...me ;)
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advice?

"Oh I see, so now she's my cute little sister ^_^" If she responds by denying it or trying to be different from your assumption, it means you're not in the friend zone. Then again, if she says "I know" it could be on purpose to fool you in to being in the friend zone. To that I would respond, "Dammit, that means I gotta keep her under control"

your a genius man...didnt get to use that because the conversation flowed and she went offline. Its been so long since I've been in the game and I'm only 17 so im not the best at this type of stuff. I think im playing it kind of cool with her. I'm not great at the phone game but I'm not sounding desperate with her. What do you reckon my chances are at the moment? thank you alot for your help i really appreciate it.

Most important thing: never act needy. Never say she's pretty or cute unless there's strings attached to it like saying, "You're pretty but we won't get along." She'll probably ask why and then you'd say, "We're too similar". Nevertheless, you don't have to use that method with the strings attached. You can just not say she's pretty or cute all together. What gives it that attraction feel is when you two keep on talking length of time-wise but at the same time being challenging and interesting with her and nice at the same time. What kills them is when you build the attraction, get her interest, talk to her a bit, and then say, "It was a pleasure meeting you -name here-".