A lesson learned today for me. I met up with a girl I haven't seen for quite some time, I was using Kino on her, we were walking around holding hands, brushing past each other, she was constantly grabbing my arm..

We were standing by the river half hugging and talking, perfect moment to kiss her and I fucking blew it!! I suddenly had this overwhelming fear take hold of me, my heart rate went up and I just blew it! I don't even know why, I've kissed closed a number of girls before with absolutely no problem, I was telling myself to go for it, but I didn't. After that she was more closed off and less touchy. The window had closed.

A lesson, ALWAYS pull the trigger, you'll feel like absolute shit if you don't!

The "window has closed" is just an illusion you can kiss here anywhere, anytime. Also try to be playful and maybe even look a little silly/funny to her it will build comfort and give you the confidence to kiss close.

I pretty much always pull the trigger. The worst that can happen is the girl rejecting you, that's when you next her .

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I am me

man i understand your frustration, i have dont that MANY times when learning the basics and basically growing a pair haha
point being, if you have that much kino you can look her in the eyes and go for a kiss. if you have a little less you can add in a sentance to catch her attention then go for the kiss. something like "i would never guess id be having fun with such a dorky girl" and smile. she will laugh and be slightly "offended", then you just go for it

thats not what i use every time, but it has worked

mR.e

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dont even think just do it!