ok so im a 17year old HS student at the moment. im slightly socialy awkward and a virgin. i live in a small town where fuck all happens. in 9 months im moving to uni in a larger city. i dont want to turn up unprepared (i.e. socially retarded) so what can i do to up my social skills? like i said im 17 so its hard going out. im skint, dont have a car, cant drink or get into clubs and live in a small town where there are verry few HB's.

ive just started hanginf with new people at school and i feel much better. i feel more like part of the group. ive been going out more, and practicing my flirtingon the girls of the group. so far i reckon i have done perty well, but the problem is they are all either going out with a friend of mine or not exactly good looking so im not happy about taking it further with many of them. and im running out of new people to talk to.

what advice would you give me? how can i practice my PUA skills? thanks

Whether the girls are unattractive or not-game them!

Your focus is on social skills & social dynamics.

UG's(ugly girls)are part of the social scene:clubs,bars,porting events,etc.

So you should not single out HB's beased on looks or that they're fat.

Get to know everyone!

Chat up everyone,every chicc.

Remember,it is guys who judge and come up with the rating -system[HB10,5,2,6].

Women dont have this.

Women dont look at other girls and say,she's a 5.

So,an HB4 to a guy may look like an HB10 to other girls.

The prettiest girls are the most insecure about looks.

So,chat up HB4's too!

You'll be building your social network!

I game fat girl all the time,and that makes HB10's very insecure that Im not gaming them.

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haha so true man! I remember 13 years ago when I was in high school my buddy and i figured this out. Game the ugly and or fat friend at first and the HB will be like WTF and get all insecure. Funny how we figured that out before i had even ever heard of game.

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@Carmo-Lol,I wish I knew that back in High School.

A pretty solid concept.

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ok cool. i do practice my openers and stuff on UG's, i just dont feel comfortable going further in case i acidentaly pull them or people think somethings going on (this being highschool people are just looking for an excuse to humiliate each other). anyways i was wondering if girls adding me on FB was an IOI? i thought it was but one girl who ive been talking to as a friend (she has a BF who im m8's with) said it wasnt.

lastly what can i do to practice my day game? being 17 the club scene is out of the picture for me. so day game is much easier for me, i dont see many sugestions for this. all the good openers dont work at daytime. i.e. 'hey, looks like the partys over here' wouldnt work in a supermarket.

thanks

@Bowlie-I so hate Facebook and online gaming!!

I now notice that many girl(ppl)just add ppl to make their social network look bigger.

I have a female cousin who has over 2,000 friends.

Obviously she cannot lay 1500 of them(guys).

So she just adds them to make her friend's list bigger.

So a girl adding you doesnt necessary mean IOI.

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Ok that's a point. And tbh I hate FB too. It kinda feels like the cowards way, and I'm sure girls pick up on that + you can't get across the cocky / funny well. But I thought that was just me. I kinda presumed it meant she wants to stay in touch, maybe not.

@Bowlie-Great friggin' point!

Speaking about girls picking up on that(guys chosing the coward's way out-online gaming).

The do pick up on that.

More so,Im talking about girls you already know or may see around,yet you chose to game her on Facebook when you could've done it in person.

Those girls would RARELY ever take the online advances serious.

But this' where it varies,to know if she's genuinely feeling you.

If she adds you on Facebook,you accept,then she doesnt follow up.

Know that there's no attraction there.

She just did it to build her network and seem important(more friends).

But if she follows up,inboxes you,contacts you on chat-she's into you.

So it's all after the friend request that you can try gauge her interest.

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