I'm an average looking freshman in college, have never gamed before, and just finished my first semester at a school with maybe 2500 kids. I was able to hook up with 30+ girls, and some of them gave me head- never went for sex. I've never been the type of guy to hookup with tons of girls, and even though I didn't try to "game", my confidence level with girls has always been through the roof because I don't put hot girls on a pedestal, and refuse to treat them like they're special because they look good.

All this time, I've been best friends with a girl I initially found to be ok looking. I realized at some point that I really liked her for her personality (more like me), and told her. She said she wasn't sure, so i took that as a nice way of putting me down.... I'm gonna go for her after christmas break, and if she says no, i'll probably start really trying to game.

Anyways, my question is more general.- Is there a point in college where you decide you want to settle down and stop just trying to pickup girls and hooking up? I'm curious to hear what some more experienced guys who have gone through college have to say.

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I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.

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hey man
HOLY SHIT...we are in almost the EXACT same place...

I have been gaming since i was 16, sneaking into college parties to open girls, hookin up with quit alot of girls from then on, but like you i am starting to like someone. I am not the biggest hookup guy ever, but i found a girl that i want to kinda date who is just really awesome to talk to and really dorky which i love

and to tell you the truth i dont no if college is a point to settle down. like you, i am only just into my first semister of school... and i actually like some one more then the rest of the girls iv been around. at some points i think to myself...if we dated would this destroy my game when we break up? would i not have fun? but at other points this girl is very cool and i could see myself dating

i feel yea man i hope some older gents that have maybe actually gone through more schooling can reply on this too i feel that it is an important thing for people who have either gamed alot then gone to college, or just meet someone they look rather soon

mR.e

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dont even think just do it!

If you want an honest answer, then it would be no. College is a great opportunity for you to get out there testing and improve your PUAs skill, trust me you wont get a second chance in life to be able to meet dozens girls everyday without the need to use an openers.
Let's do the math, at least you run across 20 girls a day while walking around campus. Let's just say even if you're not that great at picking up, 15 of them you gonna open to, 10 of them you got to # close. Out of that 10, at least 3 of them you gonna successful escalate with (college girls are freaking horny )
Now take that and consider how much experience and girl you will get within 4 yrs?
But if you feel like she's the one ( common trap AFCs usually fall into) and worth the sacrifice, then go head.
If it was me, i'll stay in good term with her, keep gaming, but not gonna push it into anything exclusive. After gaming 300 other girls, if I still feel like she's the one, it's still not too late to make her mine. Don't be afraid that someone gonna take her, if that happens, with PUAs skill you can always show her you're way better than the asshole she's dating.