Guys, what kind of movie did you see or what kind of training manual did you read to become such misogynists? Who's your 'guru'? . . . your neighbors dog?

LOL . . . you know what would be a great act? After you fuck a girl, you ought to have her stand stark naked with her hands spread out like the branches of a maple tree. Then you crawl around . . . sniff around a bit. Then raise your leg and piss on her ankle. Snap a photo! Your bros' noses probably aren't sensitive enough to know who owns this tree; scotch tape this photo on the chick's forehead and you'll be all set.

On the other hand, plenty of screwballs love sucking the cocks of guys who love to piss on their ankles so there you go. Screwball, emotional drain fuck fest. Have at it . . .

What's your point?

Not that I don't enjoy your cynical wisdom, but are you really trying to say that it's not ever going to complicate matters in your friendship when you fuck your buddies ex? I know it's backwards for him to think that putting his penis inside her makes her somehow his property, but does that mean he's not going to think it?

I thought you were big on how things are in the real world, and not wrapped up in bullshit idealism.

Bottom line: Everything is situational, no reason to assume that it's absolutely impossible for you to have sex with a friend's ex and still maintain a healthy bromance, but it most definitely can fuckup a friendship. I don't think calling your buddy a misogynist is going to change his feelings for the better after he finds out his old flame has been swallowing your cum, if he's predisposed to be pissed off about it in the first place.

^ You are correct. Read my first reply . . .

I may be wrong but don't you believe in 'no sex before marriage'?

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I would, and have.

Nope I wouldn't, few reasons really, bro's before hoe's in any situation like this.

Also, she may be sleeping with you to "get one over your mate", but most importantly, I wouldn't because of RESPECT towards my friend, and there are loads of women out there.

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Honnestly, I've had a friend fuck one of my ex's and I wasn't pleased, but only because he hadn't asked me if it was ok. Had he of showed me that respect I probably would have said it's ok.

That being said there's also a grieving period. You probably shouldn't sleep with someones ex if they broke up the day before and they were together for 5 years... unless he says it's ok. Use your best judgement.

dJ vIrAl

This!

Nope!

Well, I think I fucked up on this one. I don't regret what I've done, but I'll definitely have to think twice about it when another situation like this present itself . I didn't realize she may be using me to "get to him" . It's great to see all your opinions.

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This is why the term, bro's before hoes always comes true. Respect your friend, respect yourself, then whatever happens, your all kool!

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i agree with the "dont do it" approach.

and most of my friends that are good with pick up ALSO agree.
the ones that are like "meh its all good. who cares" are usually the more desperate ones and the ones that never haf gf's. hence "i wouldnt care if you did it to mine"

and one of the only reasons your bro has a chance in fucking this hot girl is simply because YOU picked her up and introduced her to him... he'da been a total fukn chump trying to meet her himself.... she out of revenge or desperation fuks your friend and he out of just wanting to get some since he doesnt often does it.

if you're GOOD at picking up why bother fuking your friends ex.
it brings up all sortsa issues... you have to hear about and someone else hit it perfectly..

friends a douche or not they ALWAYS bad mouth the other guy for a piece of ass if they are desperate enough.. (see my first point.) not only bad mouth...

i had my BEST friend tell my ex i lived with for 3 years ALLL the times i cheated on her that he knew about and all the girls i used to help him pick up when we went out.... what a cunt... and she still didnt sleep with him and im still friends with her but he tried. so hard and she hated me for awhile... yet he kept his mouth fukn closed the 4 years we were together....

theres lotsa girls... fukn or hitting on a friends ex is a cheap ass lazy way to get yourself laid or validated since you dont have to do any work... your bro already got you in..... guys that CAN pick up... dont bother.... this is just what ive noticed.

also to the reference to barney railing robin in that show.. i dont remembr but did they end up hanging out becaus eshe couldnt get over ted? something like that... again.. .Ted did the work.. barney went in cheap like.. and a lot of the shit barney does is so out there and rtarded it wouldnt work.. but its entertaining..

therefore saying "hes a good pua and he still went for his friends chick" is just stupid.

also if your says its ok. then fine... go at own risk.. but if your friends says no. even if you want it... dont.. or you ARE a bad friend.. and shes clearly doesnt have much standards either unless you swooped in when she was still hurting which makes u a bad friend to both of them.

It depends if a friend doesn't give a fuck about an ex, and wouldn't mind, I would fuck her.
If a friends is insecure and still wants something with their ex, I won't have sex with her

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^ I think this is the best advice. FIRST, there should be a talk, no matter what. Personally, I wouldn't mind if a friend fucked the girls I have fucked or ended up dating the ones I dated....to me, this all comes down to an EGO problem. BOTH EXTREMES are.......EXTREME. To say you just go and fuck whoever/whenever is being inconsiderate, but it is ALSO inconsiderate of me to stop two people, regardless of whether I know them or not, that COULD have a great relationship just because I don't have enough Vagisil to stroke my pussy to feel better that the person is NOT ME. The "Bros before Ho's" thing is as good as it is bad. It is just being considerate of people...as stated above, though, both extremes are being inconsiderate....and what BITCHES do to each other....!

Even in sets, I have TOLD my wings this....if it is CLEAR (big part of the process) that the girl in the set is not interested in me, for whatever reason, and it is obvious she is into my wing/friend....WHY, oh WHY, would I be pissed at that unless I feel pussy hurt because "there is something wrong with me...blah blah blah." Just because I opened a set means they can't touch her? LAMEEEEEEE Again, yes, they should wing for me, but if is NOT going anywhere and we are both honest enough to see that, I want my boys to go for it! Happy Hunting...!

It also creates good/healthy competition, that exists anyways, even if you don't say it openly....If my boy gamed a girl better than me, nice, I want to get better and be like him. Men, in sports, can have a good/healthy competition and not get their personal feelings hurt when they lose to another guy in that avenue. So, why any different with women, UNLESS we have put the pussy too high and let it affect who we are as individuals? Again, back to Ego....

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If this friend is someone you value in your life, get his permission first. Don't do it behind his back. It will come back to bite you in the ass in one way or another. I'm a firm believer in karma.

Never disrespect your friends. Period. It shows poor scruples.

The Leading Man