Hey guys, Skylark here.

There's a concept I've had on my mind for a while, and I think it's about time I brought it into the real world.

I'd like to teach you guys something I can only describe as Individuality Game.

People change; people change a lot. Outwardly, as pickup artists, many of us go from being social misfits, lacking in confidence, with little sense of style and a total incapability to womanise, to strong, striking figures in humanity; men who can employ humour, sexuality, tension & emotion with natural flair and panache.

But, actually, we don't change. At all.

Underneath this, beneath our confidence, our style, our intelligence, our humour, we are exactly the same as we've always been. Since we were ten and we were sketching at the back of the class; twelve and playing Super Mario with our friends; fifteen and talking to our first crush over MSN; eighteen and taking home our first one night lay. You're the same guy; your deep inner core has never changed and will never change.

What changes is our ability to and confidence in projecting that core onto the world around us.

I would venture that many of us don't really have any idea what lies in our deep inner core; we're too confused by our social boundaries, our emotional hindrances and we don't have the time to scoot them out the way to take a closer look.

Isn't that exciting? Underneath everything lies this totally original, incredibly characterful human being that's like no-one else out there, influenced by everything you've ever loved growing up. That's hot, man. That's really hot.

I'd like to show you how to find it.

And once you've found it, we can work on projecting it onto the world around you.
Then, everyone will know who you really are. And you won't be afraid of that anymore.

I will be taking on three clients for free.
I'd like to begin by Skyping with those of you who are interested.

You can email me at skylark.zip@hotmail.co.uk, or just send me a PM, with your SPAM name in it and I'll add you.

Thanks, guys. Hope to hear from you soon.

Sky

How can you ensure that you deliver what you promise? This sounds alot like it's be copy and pasted from the blurb of a £5 self help book. What are your credentials for coaching people?

How does your style of self help get the results which others exactly like you have promised and failed to deliver on so often?

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It's nice that you're doing it for free, really it is, I used to answer questions via PM till I got frustrated and bored with it so I can appreciate your passion for helping people.

But realisticaly, what are you offering?

Hey man, thanks for your post.

I'm happy to discuss the intricacies of the concept via SPAM, or email, or whatever.

I'm offering free positions partly because I'd like the word to spread that what I teach is beneficial; I am gaining my credentials through this program.

I think you'd have to meet me to understand why I'm qualified to teach this; I'm certainly an individual.

I'm a pop musician and a record label owner, so I understand the concept of creating a polished, finished product derived from a genuine artistic integrity; I would venture that my experience with my own development as a solo artist in terms of my image and persona has been profoundly educational when it comes to this particular topic.

I also have three years of game behind me and I've given a live webinar before, a good couple of years back now; the chatroom was packed out.

My issue lies in that I meet dozens upon dozens of new people every month and very rarely find individuals who are expressing themselves truthfully and confidently, in a way others can both admire and understand.

I'm happy to answer any more questions.

Leadership and many other great things do stem from the heart of the individual first, but you could be a world class basket-ball player, that doesn't mean you're the guy to teach 7 year olds basketball.

Being a good coach, and developing a good teaching model is about understanding people, how they learn, how they are motivated and how to communicate idea's to them in a way that really "clicks".

This is why alot of ventures in PU fail to deliver, sure the guys running it can pull but in truth they don't know shit about how to change people. (which is very much a science and art in itself).

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So what is it about your system or model that will push people forward rather than just having them listening to motivational speeches and nodding their heads to feel good catchphrases?

Edit: Again, don't get me wrong, cudos to you for helping out round here.

I'd love to hear your definition of "deep inner core".
*Are you suggesting that the 'deep inner core' of all men are attractive?

*How about women? Is the 'deep inner core' of all women attractive?
Really? So let's take guy who grew up getting his ass kicked by his dad and uncles and taunted on the playground his whole life. Are these influences are hot, hot, hot? Are you suggesting that this guy only needs to learn how to project his 'deep inner core'?

If you want to teach game, stick with some simple openers and routines. If you want to get into psychology or spritual training, consider first being a STUDENT of psychology or spiritual training. Above all: if you think you've learned this:
Then show some respect and understand that OTHERS TOO ARE "certainly individuals".

Guys, if you don't wanna take part, then don't take part.

I'm not here to argue.

In my very, very humble opinion, I think I can help some people out.

That's all there is to it.

And in my humble opinion, I think you ought to help yourself instead of seeking to help yourself through the facade of helping others. Your initial post is NOT an offer to help others but instead a personal manifesto aimed at strengthening what you 'think' might be a decent game that you've figured out for yourself.

LOL . . Please tell me that this is not the "deep inner core" that you've discovered for yourself. Please tell me that this is not the way you "PROJECT" your deep inner core to others in a way they can 'admire and understand'. Please to do not tell me that you finish off with, "That's all there is to it." - when others clearly cannot understand or admire your "inner core" or the way you project it.

Isn't there another niche in PU you can work on?

I can only speculate as to what the hell your problem is, man.

what do you mean by 'deep inner core'? im interested.

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"You don't want girls to think you suck dick at fucking pussy"
-Seth (Superbad)

I became aware of this concept when I realised that despite the transformations I had made outwardly and inwardly, there was a part of myself that had simply not changed... like, at all. It had been there all the way through and it was responsible for the entirety of my behaviour.

In my eyes, it works like this:

The inner core contains all the deeper information about a human being.

All decisions and choices should be a reflection of that inner core; the person we WANT to be is determined by it. If we all listened exclusively to our inner core, we'd be exactly who we wanted to be, all the time and make all the right decisions for us.

Often, this is obscured by emotional issues, fears, insecurities etc; now, I can't ever claim to be able to deal with all of a human's fears and insecurities, as they determine a hell of a lot of our behaviour, too; in fact, they can be beneficial to us, as well as detrimental.

But, I do believe that it's possible, with some deeper thought and by learning to respond to the feeling of passion over the feeling of fear, begin to move the things between you and that core out of the way, so you can see yourself more clearly.

When you begin to see what you're really all about, you can begin to project that onto the world around you. As you can imagine, this is very satisfying, in a way you may not have experienced before, as you may never really have understood what it is you were trying to communicate to everyone.

I believe your inner core is determined heavily by your childhood influences; the stuff that made you super excited as a child, but then you grew out of, cos society said you weren't allowed to be excited about them anymore.

All of this, is of course, only my own speculations and thoughts. But, they've made me more contented personally and I think the concept may work well for others.

Sky

okay what can you offer that inner game posts on here cant?

and if its got its roots in childhood then what if, as Kasabi says, you had a bad childhood?

Im not against your idea just trying to understand it past the vagueness of what is said.

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"You don't want girls to think you suck dick at fucking pussy"
-Seth (Superbad)

Well, this is something that I'd like to discuss with individual clients, as it will vary quite wildly for different people.

I intend to focus upon positive ideas and concepts over negative influence; in fact, that's something I'd like to hit pretty hard.

I find it quite spectacular how much scrutiny I'm coming under, considering that I'm not asking for any money...

Science is about trying to disprove something until it cannot be disproven anymore (until a later date). well this is what my teacher told me in Alevel chemistry anyway.

So when you say something on here with pretty big claims, expect people to question it until they are satisfied.

You should be happy people are questioning it, it means its being noticed right?

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"You don't want girls to think you suck dick at fucking pussy"
-Seth (Superbad)

Sure. However, I'm not claiming that what I have to offer is 'science'; it's not necessarily something that can be proven or disproven. I do believe it will be beneficial to those who undertake it, though.

hey!it a nice thing you are trying to do.
I have 2 questions.first is very simple:P. You said something about SPAM,is that a program for talking or can you write too?because i don't have a microphone...

The second question is about the inner core. I will try to be short. When i am alone or with some people i am always depressed,sad,and very negative.That changes rarely,but i see dramatic changes when i am with a friend. He lives far away and we see eachother very rarely.We had been friends for all our lives,and when im with him i feel like im connected to the inner core,something like that...I can approach girls without AA,i can do almost anything because nothing else mathers.It's like the bootcamp effect(don't know who said that).
Like i said,when im not with him(and a fiew other people who make me a little different,but he is the best example)i feel very negative and not connected to myself.
I know what i have to do,i know what will happen...but i alwajs talk myself out of it.
Does this make sense?:P