Hi guys,
Let me start about the Girl in question
She's a girl i initially opened almost 2 years ago with a cold approach and it turned out she was a year below me in school, we hit it off everything was going well but i got caught with another girl and that ended it all, we became friends and i just used her to show pre selection to sets etc then about 3 months ago i got out of friend zone and started displaying value and switching on attraction again it was going ok but going on for too long.

What Happened
Yesterday we was on facebook she initiated the chat then said she had to go but to text her, i didnt text and she text me within half an hour speaking to me in french because she knows i think its hot lol then randomly it got on to how i annoyed her almost 4 month ago in a argument ( i think this shows she was thinking about me?) she got all pissed off i text back " im not going to apoligize for something 4 months ago, get over it or dont. if your gunna be like this dont text me till morning " she text back " no i dont wanna leave

" it all kicked off again so i didnt text back and she text me about 4 hours later saying she was listening to some music that i like (she doesnt) because of me.

My mistake (as i see it)
It was friday night and i was out and was very drunk when she text back and being a afc stupidly let it affect me from before and started to act differently and texting back 1 word texts etc, It then turned in to a full argument where we was both trying to annoy each other. she then said shall we stop speaking forever finally ( we have a history of arguments and came close last month) and i put yeh :'), tbh if it was a normal girl i could recover from this but we used to always argue when we was younger and she is to the point where i dont think i can get her back without loosing value massively.

So can any of you guys help me?? and show me how i could possibly get her back warm her up again without loosing any value myself?? help would be greatly appreciated, I'm still rather new to this game as i took a long break from it to be with this same girl a year ago. I know pua isnt about getting one girl and seeing one girl as the prize can deffo fuck up your game but i can handle it and keep it under wraps in my opinion.

I have a situation just like that. Anything that pertains to arguing, ask me lol because I'm notorious for conflict. You weren't being afc sending those 1 word texts, don't worry about it. The real truth about you two is that you both like each other and bullshit too much which is why you two can't get anywhere. When you're feeling nice, she's feeling mad at you and vice versa. This creates the perfect attraction. You two will most LIKELY never stop talking to one another. I've known this girl and we've been arguing more than I can count and still ending up wanting one another when one of us doesn't want it. Keep in mind at all times: girls don't say what they mean and don't mean what they say.

Since you like this girl, you'll have tendencies to lay it low and reach out to her and she'll reject and you'll feel bad. Don't do that.

When you argue with her, keep it straightforward. Most importantly, JUDGE her. Tell her negative things about herself that she knows are TRUE. Truth is the way to go to win arguments. And after you lay down the truth, lay a hint of DHV by saying something like, "You're wasting my time" or "You're just like all the other girls" and leave. You can even cuss her out but I'd save that as a last resort if things really get ugly and fighting has been the only thing going on for a long while.

Just say things like, "You're the opposite of what I look for in a girl." Or, "You are mentally ill". Don't be all like, "I don't see what the problem is or what's wrong with you." Those are all gay answers that pussies would say.

You hit the nail on the head my friend, it is exactly as you explained, and i have begun with all that again the last 3 months and thats what has got me out of friendzone again i just had a slip and revealed my one-itus in this argument and was on a last chance so to speak so thought i was fucked.

luckily earlier on she text me some random every day message and then text saying sorry ignore that, i saw this as an invitation for me to speak to her that she had tried to disguise to save face so i waited an hour and a half then spoke and everything is like it didnt happen she even asked me to pop bywhere she works in 2 days wish me luck ha

not got time to answer all of this, but it is sometimes a good idea to say sorry, you come off looking better sometimes, but only if you think you have messed up, if you really don't think you messed up then don't say sorry and its her loss, try to move on, you still young mate don't get hung up on women in school it will stay with you for the rest of your life if you do

Being a fucking asshole isn't the same thing as being alpha. Using emotional cheap shots is NOT gonna help this guy. I read you're other thread and why you would pass on this technique is beyond me.

You can lay down the law without being a dick. Contrary to a lot of posters on here seem to think, girls don't like douchebags.