I was thinking about this. I kind of do it with my current gf, more than she does it to me. (She hardly does it to me) Whenever a girl is giving me shit tests, I feel like she is keeping me on my toes. However, flip the script, and your keeping her on her toes. What's your thoughts?

Sounds good. Got any examples?

This is like from the movie A Bronx Tale, where you lock both doors to your car. You open the door for her to sit, if she leans over and opens the door for you, then she's a keeper, if not, tell her to go home. Although this doesn't work now with automatic locks and all, but you get the point lol.

Normally i'll answer a phone a call in the middle of conversation, or something to see if she has patience or she is going to throw a fuzz out.
Or drop something by accident and see if will pick it up for you.

The key to doing these shit test is for them to seem TOTALLY NATURAL, because her reaction will then be TOTALLY NATURAL.

Yeah, sorry for the wait in the reply, been working.

I love the idea, it's like a more discrete IOI.

So... if you 'accidentally drop something and she picks it up it means she has patience and is worth pursuing. Although if she does not pick up what you drop and you have to may DLV. Perhaps if you tried with something you can afford to loose.

I was spending some time with friends over the weekend. Whilst staying, I had to iron a shirt for a job and just as I started I said casually how much I despise ironing and one of the girls there offered to iron it for me. Perhaps this is also similar to what you have discussed.

Keep thinking of these shit test scenarios and build a list. I'd love to see.

Do you think there is a diffrence between doing Qualification and giving Shit-tests?

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Shit tests for a girl should come in a natural way, I agree, the same way they try it on us. Things like them offering to iron for you, do anything for you basically should be taken as an IOI. Shit tests for them are different, but worthwhile, you can see if the girl holds interest, enough interest.

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That's pretty cool, and that simple act conveys so much about that girl. Just of the top my head, she's kind, definitely willing to help others, she was listening to what you were saying, she has HOME skills(more wifey material lol), and she probably has a secret crush on you...but that's exactly what I was trying to say.

Some girls...scratch that, A LOT of girls, would have just ignored your comment and continued to let you iron your own shirt.

You don't need to throw out a silly shit test if you just use qualification correctly.

By telling her the kind of attributes you like, and getting her to open up and actually try and display them for you, builds both emotional investment and compliance into the interaction. It's far more nuanced and powerful than a shit test.

You can be a little insulting or cocky or rude, but that's in the context of playful flirting and banter, not in a serious way.

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