Ok so I have always been on my own... never getting attached to girls..

I feel like i'm falling for this one girl we made out fooled around, but have not banged her yet.. I donno at first we messed around it was fun but I had no feeling for her even the week after... then I been talking to her more and more... and I feel like i'm getting hooked...

To be honest I'm scared shitless to put myself out there and open my heart because I'm afraid to get hurt. its happened before... I was happy being a playa and just doing my own thing but I feel like this girl is sorta playing me now lol!!

Plz help...

PS: I know she really likes me she told me, she use to have a small crush but now its a huge crush on me... but I'm still confused about what I should do...

Hi man!

What you should do depends entirely on you. If you want to be with this girl, then open up and be with her. If you want to keep on playing, then realizing your feelings is a first step. Make your distance. Create distance by not allowing overt kino, do whatever it takes actually.

Besides, not being with this girl because you are afraid that you might be hurt is not a valid reason. Life is hard, you will get hurt. Deal with it. When i was little, i tried riding a bike. I fell down right on the face multiple times. I am still riding my bike. I already had 2 accidents this year alone due to sub zero temperatures. This is the first snow here, and hell yeah, i am driving again. This girl might break your hearth, but you will not turn out gay, now will you?

No matter what you do or where you go, pain will always find you. its a constant in life. Deal with it amigo!

I wish you lots of luck on whatever you might choose!

ciao

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I was (and am) in same situation than you. I kept girls away from me (emotionaly) and just tried being a player. I have great sucess with women. A few weeks ago I hooked up with a girl that really made impression (and I on her). I decided to open myself to her and give it a shot. I know that I'll be able to get back in the game as soon as this thing ends. Will it hurt? Probably. But I enjoy it way to much to let it pass me. I have no doubt I'll learn thing or two and I would love to have a meaningful relationship with her.

I only had two options. Let her go for next bimbo or give it a shot and in worst case scenario get hurt and get my ass back in the game. As I see it I have nothing to lose and a lot to gain.