Hey all and thanks for reading:

This girl at work is the focal point of all male interest (well most). She has a boyfriend and I have a girlfriend of a few years. I'm trying this "game" until it get's to the bingo moment where I'm going to withdraw.

We are both very late twenties.

We have been talking for months just at work. No personal email, facebook, msn or anything. No mobile either - we are both in long term relationships.

Her eyes follow me, she laughs at everything I saw and her eyes light up when we talk. I gamed her for a while then felt crap for it so backed off for a few weeks. Sure enough she came back to me, not me to her. We joke around together a lot and I'm sure her friends at work know I'm "into her".

She always comments on how good it is too see me,, and she always tells me I'm really funny.

We wait for each other to sneak private chats. She has positive body language around me, pointing herself at me, I've seen wrists and see lip licking evertime we talk. Just quick licks but often.

She just told me her life is boring and that she needs excitement. She's "fed up" at home and is bored. She did mumble "I'm not going to leave him, but..." I dusted over doing the mates thing and counciling. Was this a bad move, and was she shit testing me or actually dismissing me. I did manage a small touch after the conversatin and we exchange 3 or 4 emails after we talked.

I'm so nervous around her, but I think she is just playing with me.

She does seem more into me than anyone else around, but never have things got to exchanging numbers and that. I suspect because it's illicit?

What do you folks think? Thanks for taking your time to read.

C.

well claude,

i know this situation and thank mehow i really love to game girls who got boyfriends there is nothing that is more easy than that.

well first if you guys start talking about the topic relationship bla bla bla then just say "oh you guys defently got the perfect relationship" it depends on the situation if you bring it up in a funny or serious way so check out the situation...then ask her questions like what type of guys do you want in a relationship, listen to her carefully and actually try to get the frames you both got together if she is saying well he has to be protective or something like that than just say yeah defenetly i mean my ex girl always told me i feel so save when i´m with you bla bla bla and give any kind of reason or story just think about one instantly and talk anything but always bring the frames together.

anyways just keep also doing a couple jokes with her, you know things that are getting her to lough (having fun with you).

at the end just say you know what we are going to hang out together...bring up something cool, not always cinema oder dinner because these are things everyone is doing then when you are out with her a bit of Kino then a bit SE then it should be the easyiest thing getting a K-Close if your good and stick too your routines and what i´m telling maybe even an F-Close who knows and if she is a girl you would like to see in a relationship with you thats also not impossible.

if you got any questions about the frames etc. feel free to PM me.

AFC Payman

Thanks for the reply AFC Payman.

So you think it sounds I'm in with a shot here?

it should be no problem getting an F-Close,

just dont forget to Sexualy escalate thats the most important when your out with her...and as alwas prefer doing it, if she starts talking about sexual stuff just say befor you hit on me like that, just cook some food bla bla bla...depends on the situation or buy me a drink or something feel free doing it sometimes it happens that they start saying oh you want to change the roles of a male and a female, say yes or just laugh about it and change the topic...and always let her imagine things if she cooked something for you just say "that good imagine when i come from work and bring the kids from school you cooked that and we are eating together..." etc just let her imagine beeing in a kind of relationship with you also a very funny thing is let her imagine having sex with you just say in the right moment "haha omg pllleeaaasssse doooo noooootttt imagine me and you having sex on your bed while the moon light is shining in bla bla bla" describe it a bit more so it is easier for her to imagine it and then acctualy escalating is much easier.

AFC Payman

Thanks again AFC Payman. My tactic when I next see her is to stay away. I'll raise the kino when we are togethe but the problem is the whole office seee the chemistry in my opinion and are watching to see hwat happens. Gossip and all that.

I'll be well happy with an F-close, but like I said, it's illicit.

I made a mistake though - se walked past me and I was on my own and she was with a friend. She didn't look though I know she knows I was there. I waved and got her attention. She smiled big and that, but I should have let her pass on by. I was almost out of eye shot but I know she knows I was there.....Did I fuck up?

i have to be honest, this is a good tactic but you have to look at the situation you know i pretty much fucked up a set because of the reason i stayed away you have to go and talk because if you do not, you have no chances to still build attraction without doing anything an in most cases the girl is not coming back all the time to talk to you and thats why she will loose interest in you.

if she passed by the last time, she was with a friend what you could have done in that situation was to go say hi and tell her "wow thats your friend introduce me" talked a bit to her friend while ignoring her so you where in a normal two set situation anyways dont worry she likes you so you did not fuck up dont worry about that.

just go for it talk with her, but always act like she wants you for example i talked to a girl and i said to her "yeah its okay if you come and we both watch a movie on an online stream"...she answered to me "wow your so romantic (very ironic one)"...i answered her: "yep, but hey although you wanna have a romantic time with me slow it down baby not that fast, we have enough time".

so this goes right into qulifing and disqualifing, work with that it should be not a big deal and if you do that.
the reason why you disqualifyed makes it much easier to escalate.

AND ONE IMPORTANT THING try to go out with her tell her for example "i wanna go out on tuesday to the chinese guy its wonderfull there bla bla bla and you come with me"

take her with yourself so there is no one who knows you guys and its much more comfortable for her so you can push it further because, if you guys do anything there are no social consequences for her so she will accept it.

AFC Payman