Yoo,

Whats a good Way to Approach woman when their dancing?

Last week i was in a club, i could noticed that women were interest in me,
but because i wasn't that talkactive.
I said to myself lets first talk with this Ugly girl first,
but some reason she wouldn't talk back tried to start some sets,
but was a bit hopeloss then i said, well have nice evening.

what to do>?

greetings

well there is this one thing...it's called bump n grind...I don't recommend it lol.

My friend pulls it off though, maybe that's cas' hes attractive and has big muscles.

Personally I find its too hard to communicate with a girl while they are dancing. What I do is strut my stuff, and once i get some eye contact...slowly drift away, seeing if she follows. If that is the case, open on them in a better environment where she isn't active and can hear you.

Look everyone has there own thoughts but This is really what you need to do. LEARN HOW TO DANCE. A person on the dance floor is far more attractive than a wall flower. How do I know this well its because i can dance and I get lots on ladys in dance clubs. you don't have to be a great dancer just confident in yourself man. she will notice and let you dance up on her. trust me no girl on the dance floor is going to walk off the dance floor and follow you if you havent even danced with her. I'v never ever seen this happen. even more so if shes with her friends danceing. all you got to do is go up to her and start danceing if wants to dance with you shell start grinding on you if she's not im the mood she give you a simple no reponse. Not a big deal at all just move on to the next one.

option two is wait for the hotty to get off the dance floor and when she's getting a refreshment run your pua lines on her. and if things are going good then ask her to dance with you. Hopes this helps man. I'm sure others will have good advice to.

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BRENT AKA "HOLLYWOOD"

Usually you can just start dancing with them and try to get some kino. And except if you kick them or step 10 times on your feet they won't complain you dance bad except if they are bitches also practice leads to perfection as the other guy said it is hard to remove them from the dance floor without at least some dance.

What are the best free resources to learn how to dance?

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Rick
University of Michigan Freshman

haha Tell the girl she dances like Ellaine from Seinfeld then walk away and see what she does. If she comes over to say something then start gaming her, and go back to the dance floor.

LOL. I tried this at some clubs a few weeks back. The bump and grind and the open friendly invitation. I'd just get shrugged off or they would dance away. On the flipside, one time I was walking off the dance floor and a girl was eyeballing me HARD. It was a perfect opportunity for me, but I have a problem where I never capitalize on approach invitations.

I'm considering taking dance classes. Would be a great way to expand the social circle as well.

i wouldn't recommend trying to pick up girls while they are dancing you r better off waiting till they go for a drink or stop for a minute

OR

you can try the balls out method dance near the girls while she is dancing so she can see you. When the music stops tel her she is good at dancing but not good enough and challenge her to a dance off.

Dance off's are a great way to DHV and if you play your cards right its a great way to get some kino going

picking up girls on the dance floor is my fav, i enjoy dancing and good at it so i just get on the dance floor and get busy,

now this is my regular routine and i find it quite effective

i dance nxt to the girl or girls and smile at them with confident eye contact, then i blantantly shake my head to show dissappiontment, 90% of the time the girl will will talk to me and say like what? or why?
Her: what?
me: wel, u dance ok but with a litle practise u can do betta...smirk

normally this will bring a smile from her and she will start dancing towards me trying to prove herself to me, then i get into all this routine when i keep teasing her for a while tile she start touchin me then i say sumtin like
hands off, i just took my shower or i just washed this shirt
this will make her touch me more n of cos if u do this wel ( n it will cum wit practise) have the mentally of the girl i alway think what she must b thinking and reverse the role ( u no girls wil normally b thinkin i dont wont him to no am a slut or easy or woteva, so use this first n intense on her) if she wants to dance close up(grind) i playfuly push her away a couple of times and just have fun, mix teasing with disqualification and it is magic, i normally will throw in oneliners like, ur soo not my type.....u soo cannt handle me....etc
some girls will go as far wanting to kiss me to impress me, then i will pull away teasing her with bodylanguage and then i normally tell them i dont i dont kiss on the first, dat she has 2 buy me flowers or sumtin b4 (u no make stuff up)(btw u can kiss her on the dancefloor if u prefer, personally i dont cos other girls will b watchin n i c dem again tryin it on on them they will no am a player or sumtin) then i grap her and say i want to show her this dance move i learnt but we have to off the dance floor cos u need space, if she cos wit me, take her to the wall n den i will start making out wit her b4 i show her any move...remember i have been teasing n disqualifyin her so much mostly wit body languae so she is more likely to b into me, i get and use the tic tac kiss close on her and then make out with her, but remember always b the one to stop or pull away, that way she will want u more, when lipsing her i normally pull away n say sumtin like, 4 out of 10 n again show disapointment, most girls will get it straight away n try n swallow my tongue im not careful..lol but i keep pushin n pulling and from there, i either have a convo wit her to get to no her or woteva, or normaly i do another venue change normally another club or my house....

neways i hope this will help someone, sorry for the boring detials,
all comments are welcomed, i want to futher improve this routine so i need ur honest views guys

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THE SMOOTH OPERATOR

Yea, guys should learn how to dance.

wow, this is actually good advice. needs to be translated from txt to English, but overall pretty sound. The big thing is just cut loose, you probably going to be in a club where you know no one, so who cares if you suck at dancing, it's the only way your going to get better

I love parties I guess my inner hunter comes out.
I prey on girls that look like they wanna dance.
I move in from behind before they can see me
warp my hands around their waist and give
a firm glare in the eye.

It's like instant chemistry from there and if the song is
slow I could use my kino skills to go all the way into
making out on the party floor.

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Urban PUA specializing in everything he can get his hands on ... as long as it's female

A True PUA could learn everything he needs too about a girl in one glance.

Why don't you start learning salsa/bachata/merengue? it's easy to learn as its based on steps and counting, once u loose the fear of dancing and you move in rhythm it will extend to all other music.

Besides you will learn the turns and moves that most girls love to do (even when the music is not proper for it)

For this you can go to pretty much any latin club around the world, as a plus you get another social circle/sarging place full with sexy dancing girls

[extra tip: in this courses normally girls far outnumber the guys]

for practicing you can also dance in the mirror and last while in the club don't make funny faces just keep a big smile. With Latin music look at the girl straight in the eyes

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Reload

check out videojug.com

they have videos on how to dance, even the moon walk.

I never go up to girls that are dancing. They are there to have fun with their friends, let them dance. If she comes over and/or shows IOI from a distance, of course I will get closer and see what she does... usually results in a butt grind from her. I could care less about dancing with girls. I can have fun by myself, girls are just optional on the dance floor. Girls notice I am having a good time by myself and will often come over and start dancing in front of me, that's when you know you're in. For instance, the club I go to weekly has a few regular HB's. I shit you not, every guy that tries to dance with them gets shut down and pushed them back. These girls are serious bitches, you get the picture. Yet, all these girls have come up to us (my wing and I) for some heavy grinding. What we usually do is dance with them for about 30 seconds to 1 minute and go back to dancing by ourselves. Needless to say, they always come back for more. I don't look like a model either. This is great because it builds social proof.

The club plays house/breakbeat/techno/trance music in case you guys are wondering.