I was with this girl,she's not my type,i don't really like her but she is a great conversationalist,she listenes to me and stuff like that.The reason i make this post is because i felt something different.She was holding me in her arms and i felt fucking great,calm and perfect.The first time i think i had this feeling,the only thing i wanted to do is hold her in my arms,just stay close.I didn't even have a boner or something like that,fiew sexual thoughts...and now the only one thing that i can think about is WHY!?
After thinking about it for while,and browsing the internet,i think i have mommy issues.When i was young my mother didn't take care of me,because she was working.When i grew older she alwajs was(and still is)annoying and without any logic.She does stuff just to piss me of,and for a while made my life a living hell. Other traumatic events happened to.

And now i am wondering,do any of you feel this too?control freak mother+absent wimp dad= what?

My dad is pretty gimpy, especially around women since he was raised with all sisters in a matron household and I never had a mother. It sucks, I definitely consider these things a detriment to my own relationships. I don't want to be mothered at all though, it's not for me. If that's what you want, there are women that will happily fill that role for you, there are women that like to do it. I don't think it's unhealthy that you like to be held and comforted, but if you're also using these women as therapists, you should see a professional, because that's not fair.

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31 and still figuring it out.

thanks for the feedback!I started reading some books about this,how parents influence theyre little kids.It's quite interesting and some things become clear!