So lately i've been talking to this girl. She lives in my building in my university. We hang out like once a week and semester is over and she is leaving for like a month or so. I don't know if i'll see her so i wanna tell her i like her. I don't know if she likes me or not.
I was talking to a girl and she told me that its good if u tell a girl that u like her but it has to be in a witty way if its through text. She told me that a guy once texted her "i'm hooked" she answered, what do u mean? i'm hooked to you, for some weird reason I'm starting to like you" she said that she liked that. Because it wasn't too serious, it was a confession, but in a playful way.
I'm thinking of texting something similar to it, something like "so i've been hijacked", why? "its weird, but u have hijacked my mind. lol I don't know what it is about you that i like. ugh lol"
idk what do you guys think I should do.

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yeah dudes am here to learn the pick up game and to get better everyday

the only reason to you want to tell her is because you are insecure about how she feels about you and you want to hear that the feeling is mutual. dont do it.

simply continue having fun. no labels, dont burst the bubble.

the problem that has come with some of my relationshps not working is that i keep playing this game. I hang with them and see if they like me. and after a while it will be awkward to tell them i like them. then they would meet someone and i would lose them. I tend to have a problem when it comes to telling girls i like them so i'm following the same pattern and not taking the risk. thats why i'm considering saying it.

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yeah dudes am here to learn the pick up game and to get better everyday

dont ever tell a girl you like her. Seriously just dont do it, ESPECIALLY before you actually have a relationship. Half the fun for a girl is wondering if a guy likes her or not, if you just go out and tell her you are shooting yourself in the foot.

*show her you like her with your actions, not your words and this should be only after you are in a LTR.

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~Carmo~

I agree 100% . Don't tell her , it'll just screw things up .

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vva3Fdw-2kA[/youtube]
Watch that video , it helped me

the problem with your past episodes probably was that you wee not escalating enough...if you were having fun with them and were sexual with them they wouldnt have strayed off to another guy..

Common you guys,

get real!

The the dude who started this thread:

You can do whatever you want. But if you go tell a girl out of the blue that you like her, she is going to ask herself: what for? I dont know him and and i dont think he knows me well, so how does he know?
You are not really being honest either, because the only reason you would 'like' her is because she is good looking and you find her attractive.

So instead of texting her 'in some witty/shitty way' that you like her, instead go tell her that you think she is cute/hot/sexy and you want to meet this thursday because you want to get to know her better.

It is totally ok to tell a girl you like her if you truly like her for who she is. Stop playing games if you want a LTR and get real.

Its bullshit to never ever tell a girl you like her. WTF, people! Ofcourse, showing her you like her is a great idea as well, if it passes the message.

So according to this girl you have been talking to a lot lately. What is it you want from this girl btw? We dont know that and its actually quite important.

ciao

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

Your right , it is but thats when you know shes attracted to you. Why rush it ? Take time and build attraction , theres no rush to tell this girl now , tell her when you feel 100% sure that you like her.