Picked up a two set at a club - got really good with one of them - kisses on the cheek - harsh alpha convo - shes like "u need to slow down" - I said "I cant cuz I'm a man" and I like you. She liked that alpha shit and we hung out she gave me her number - txt game was on proper after . . .

then on the day I wanted to meet her - she like:

"Hey My friends are going somwehre but Im not sure - maybe I'll see you next week or something?"

My response:

"Still too early - just relax . . close your eyes and just relax - hmmmmm"

That showed I dont kinda care but my mind was just like yo it doesn't matter likejust fukin wit her head kinda and still being funny yeah?


She messages me again - "is the party still on? Or are you still missing me?"


I was like FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUK!!!!

I was kind stumped - so i gave my self like 5-10 mins to think

WHICH EVERYONE SHOULD

And replied with this -

"Now the ppl r are comin - still slow though - mis u? LOL ofcourse hello we r gettin married this friday - u forgot? ";

NOw - -

something tells me - the 'marriage' word should NEVER be used wheter being funny or mad or whenever - but u guys tell me

at the moment

no response

hmmmmmmm

<a href="">PUA Forum</a> - what do guys think?

Think you're blowing it. Think about it. You built a lot of sexuality and attraction at the club. What have you done since? Nothing. That sexuality and attraction you put in is going to fizzle out to nothing and someone else will get her attention unless she's a shut in loser. Stop making up fake parties and hang out with her, geez.

hahah thanks for the response bro - this is a reply that I just got:


"Haha... Yeah baby, I completely forgot....How bad am I"

See what I did there was reverse it on her - most guys WOULD be stumped but i was like aight let me flip it on her - let me go flipmode squad on her -

btw - regarding parties - I actually work at a nightclub

but yeah any hu let me respond to her and Ima get back

I was PUA god a while ago but got married and stopped it - still happily married but told my wife - helping guys in girl situation is my passion so i'm getting started again - just felt a little rusty - thanks for your response bro - if you want to reply to this text message let me know - cheers!

Wait, you're hooking up with girls at clubs and stringing them along over text even though you're "happily" married to help US out? Are you like, retarded? Get some counseling, your marriage sucks.

If you like PU that much it was probably a bad idea to get married LOL

On the other topic, supposively if you physically escalate to much at a club the girl will develop buys remorse and when you call her she will think you are only calling her because of her looks and because you want to make out with her again and have sex,

I have experienced what I believe to be buyers remorse first hand, I was at this night club and dancing with this girl and then we started making out hardcore, we went back to her car and made out and messed around but not as far as sex

I called her a few days later thinking she would be excited to hear from me only to find out that she did'nt want to hang out with me again, so I believe that was buyers remorse

Of course this is just one theory and there is other theorys that say go as far as you can with a girl on the first night, but I believe its better game to not escalate to far past kissing untill shes in your bed or your in hers

So mabey the fact that you went to far to fast was ok that night but then messed things up for you when you were trying to arrange a second meet up

Hi b*** mymeadrink lol - thanks for the input - i'll get back on this shortly -

I didn't reply to that girl cuz I was like fuk that Im at a club surronded by ladies - and too many text messages - (Plus the factor of time, little rusty etc) didnt feel like replyin anyways - I made her realize by not replying that "Hey-I'm the value here" - like if you aint coming out tonight no problem - and yeah but i'll definitely get back to you guys on this - cheers

I wanna do something with this one just for the hell of it - learning experience / rust removal lol

PUA Lesson: PUA to me just doesnt mean picking up girls - its about being on top of your social game - and being social is important in life in any job.

PUA to me is NOT picking up a girl and fuking her - thats not PUA - thats just the FIRST stage of PUA - after that TO ME - PUA expands into other things like working with the same ppl you've fuked and accomplishing real life goals that actually matter -

Being the ALPHA in work meetings
Controlling the situation when you are out in a restaurant trying to order some shit
and so on . . .

ESPECIALLY when you are with your LOVELY WIFE:) - Letting her know that shes got an ALPHA on her side who isn't second to nobody - (Wonder why so many marriages dont work huh? )

PLUS if you are not a real PUA - on top of your social skills as a f'n alpha male - u cant really have a happy marriage - only REAL MEN know what i'm talking about here

Any one heard of the concept of 'LOVE ENERGY' (Thats what I call it) hmmm yaaaahhhh its crazy - so much to learn so much to explore - loves it!

PUA to me is the art of seducing the woman and LOTS of other multi-dimensial things - NOT just fuking a girl - big difference

BOTTOM LINE: PUA means to be on TOP OF YOUR GAME (GAME could be anything, anything . . .)

PS: This rant was not for your B***pickupdrink - appreciate your mature feedback

will get back to you

PPS: YEEEAH!

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Regarding your situation about the making out thing - did you finger her or go down on her on something - making out can only be fun fo so long - if I was in the back seat of a car with nobody around - I would totally finger her or go down on her - then she will definitely call u and come back for more - most guys are too caught up in there fake (rapper like egos) - that they wont go down or whatever (same guys who get nadaaaa) - hell i love eating pussy YUM YUM hahaha yeeeah! - but i agree with you - sometimes they get scared like this black chick another night on the dancefloor - but i was hammered - and it was in the club (club game so whatever) - i had a good time so whatever - there mindset is 'oh i like this but I haven't done this before' - I said can I touch your ass - she put her arms around me and i squeezed her ass nice - then i said come to the top as I was leaning from the slightly higher up vip section - she came and i started squeezing her ass with both hands and realized she was wearing a thong (god daayuuuum) and then slowly moved my finger up her dress for a quick feel and she started grabbing my crotch area and shit while we were dancing and then suddenly "I have to go" I'm like "Okay" lo so yes I definitely agree with your buyers remorse - dont call it that though kinda harsh.


Oh and is this cheating - NOPE - because its all part of an act - I have no interest in anyone - serious - maybe when she was feeling me up she didn't feel no boner - hey its the truth

100% agree with you!! Not alot of people realize this but PUA can be used in many aspects of your life, I was talking to a member of the forum who had a job interview coming up and they couldnt stop stressing about it, what I said to our member was "Just pretend your seducing your boss, if you can seduce your boss by giving you a job without laying him down on your bed youd make a great PUA"(somewhere along the lines)
LOL

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Aight here's the lowdown:


So she sent me that message that 'or I'm so bad aren't I' but I didn't reply on that particular night - (I dont like doing to much text - action jackson over here) - I'm the value - and the initial connection I made at the club was STRONG

So I waited till the next day now - I was thinking how to relight the fire but my brain wasn't working (Never reply if you are not at your 100%) - so I went to the gym for like 25 minutes and i'm running and thinkin running and thinkin still nothing . . . ayt go in the changin room and then I felt hungry so I was like

yeeah - hit her with somthn completely random - to relight the fire / confuse the crap out of her but in a funny way lol

I messaged her:

"Hey is Vanilla ice cream good right after gym - harsh have a craving for it - oops "

Now if she was interested she would send something back - if not then well its all good;)

After like 15mins - I get this reply:

"Yes Vanilla Ice cream with hot chocloate sauce is the best - especially after gym"

So good sign - communication is still on - still has interest now . . .Its my job to BOOST that interest

"OMG u are horrible - u r suppose to help me - hellooooo lol - any hu, did u enjoy the show last night? I had to jet to *name of place*"

Notice how casual I am, especially the second 'u r suppose to help me' like I already know this girl or we've been hanging out and shit -

Then I switch it back to whats important - did u go to the show? Since I put her on the guestlist - acting like I have no clue but ofcourse I know she wasn't there hahah -

Her response:

I thought I was - ANywas . . .I just met up with my friends at their place - How was *name of place*?

Now since she is communicationg - I wanted to give it my own romantic touch - girls like romance - they like feeling special not just like pieces of meat so I switched it on again like this . . .


My response:
*that place* is just work but tonight its niice - would be nicer if you could make it - Ill put u and yo friends on the guest list - let me know cheers

Her response:
I'm in *kinda far city* at the moment - tell me whats going down next week and I'll make it. Then I have to go to visit my parents for xmas.

My response:
K *girls name*, Have a great one - ima go eat some vanilla ice cream with hot choc sauce - pce

[Instead of being desperate or like most guys - i'm still cool and even more - positive about it - 'have a great one' lol - but i'm really thinkin is let me get my hands on you girl 'mad pussy pounding' lol]

Her response:

LOL . . Go ahad, enjoy ur ice cream. Btw, u can call me *nickname*. that sounds better . . . gud nite:)


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See the main reason I wanna get with this chick is cuz shes such a challenge - it brings the best PUA out of me - stay tune fellas and ladies - cheers!

I'll post the whoooole convo so far from the beginning soon - fun stuff eh!

Female Pshycology and all

BUT

There is good chance I wont contact her - she should contact me - depends on my mood but at the moment - i dont really care hahahahah yeeeeeah

so guess who got a reply - i actually got it around mid january - guess she came back from her trip but honestlly - the fire kinda died down for me so i was like whatever - i think i just sent a funny message after her's like "How are you aunty" and got nothing back - she probably feels the same too - lesson my babies:

keep the fire burning - sorry for the late update but NOW NOW NOW here is the real test - fuk my brain just never quits - i love this PUA sport - im gonna try to contact her again after 3 months - gotta understand now this has become almost a 6 month thing - ppl quit on girls after just afew days man - weak shit - anyways sorry for the late update but i'll keep u posted - peeeeeeeeeece

ps: i'm gonna try what we call 'resurrecting dead numbers'