I have a date tomorrow, and the girl is cute.

Here is the back log:
I'm at a friends party and she walks in the door, I held my eye contact and boom:

Her: you look so familiar where do I know you from?
ME: Um... probably TV, have you seen dancing with the stars?
MY FRIEND: maybe you've seen him in your dreams..haha (he kept saying comments all night that made me stand out)

I played a little mysterious and did some kino. Had to play it real conservative and discrete. Word is she has a BF and her younger 18 yr old sister is interested in me.
+++ all around.

Because she has a BF I had to send her a private MSG on Face book:

ME: Did you ever figure it out. Because I never did.

HER:nope haha, idk. lol.

ME:Yea I see, it is still bothering you but that's okay. We've got plenty of time to get to know each other. Well actually you have until the end of the week.

HER:haha ! then your heading back to boston?

ME:I have a prior commitment.
Tell you what, I will be in NH for business on Friday and am going to want something tall warm after a long days work. Tag along and I will teach you what a good cup of Joe is really all about.

HER:haha, alright well if im around sure ! just hit me up on here !

So I think she is 20 and is probably tired of her BF. I want to show her what a really quality guy is all about.

I am going to bring her to a COFFEE shop.
but this venue can get boring after the convo is exhausted.
What are some alternate venues we can bounce to on a cold winters day?

Head to a bar or grab a bite to eat, nice relaxed SPAM, have a drink, ease any potential tension.

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Hey Chel',we meet again(lol).

@J-Diddy-great game man.

I have no complaints at all about your game when it comes to this chicc;solid friggin' game bro.

Your buddy dfinitely talked you up rather than try AMOG and DLV you.

I like the "Dancing with the stars" witty line(lol).

Dates:Well,Chel's suggestion's cool.

I kinda like the caf¨¦,coffee spot you had planned.

I dont see why it would go awkward since this isnt yall 1st.encounter.

But what is it overall you're trying to accomplish:just a chilled date,an f-close later on,LTR eventually,just flirt?

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Have logistics figured out before you go out. I tell you the truth, it really does not matter where you go as long as you are cool and interesting. She will have a blast. Man, I had an awesome time on a corner one time because it started raining, so we just stood there talking and flirting.

When I say have your logistics figured out, i mean make sure you know places to take her. Like start in the coffee shop, then head to the movies when the conversation is dieing. I usually like doing billiards or bowling because you have opportunities to teach the girl the game, which is very seductive.

THE BEST ADVICE I CAN GIVE YOU IS NOT TO TELL HER WHERE YOU WANT TO TAKE HER BECAUSE THEN SHE WILL JUDGMENTS ABOUT WHETHER TO GO OR NOT. Think about it like this, you should guide her through the ride that you want without telling her when the turns and up or downs will occur (that makes it surprising, interesting, and mysterious)--like a rollercoster ride.

I tell you this because one time, I told the girl that I wanted to take her to play billiards and she said that that game sucks and that she did not want to do it, that she did not know how to play. When I told her that i would teach her, she rejected the idea. On another day, I did not tell her and just took her, she LOVED it. I threw it in her face because its what I say that goes...

In the beginning dates, be careful on giving too much information because she can easily reject you; whereas later on, you can do whatever you want because she will know by then that you are cool to be with anywhere you go...

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Haha so we do K! lol

If this was me, I wouldn't try and develop this into an LTR, 2 reasons I repeat. I believe in karma, secondly, if she can cheat on him, she can do it again. So tread softly, dip your dick in if you feel the need, but don't make it a regular thing to turn into an LTR, because your asking for trouble on 3 fronts:

Karma

The BF finding out

If you develop feelings, your fucked.

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Lol, you guys are trying to get into LTRs?

WHY?!

Haha, I'm just playing.

Here's what you do after coffee:

"Hey I'm heading home to x (watch this movie I DLd, listen to this new album, etc). You're welcome to come along"

This shows you're cool with whatever she wants to do, which is how you end up fucking girls IMO.

If you're constantly pushing for lays, she will constantly resist.

If you're chill and relaxed and act like you have so many girls that it doesn't matter if she comes or not, then she's coming with you.

This is my standard move. It works. Good luck!

Thanks for the input guys.
K-loc I really appreciate the praise.
I was getting a bit frustrated up until recently, nothing for 2 months... talk about a dry spell. Now I have a date tomorrow, then another on sat and finally a third with a co-workers daughter. Damn... when it rains it pours.

Anyways,
As of right now I'm just trying to feel her out.
-Is she looking for a causal encounter?
Probably not. She is 20 yrs old and in my opinion women that young treat their vagina like its the "tashmahal". Plus I'm not a fan of one night stands... there is always a bad taste in the morning.
-Honestly, I would like to have exclusive rights to her, so jocking to replace her BF is my current stance.

All I am looking for is a passionate kiss or two. Then walk away.
Maybe I will have her help me pick out some new shoes after the coffee.

Good that you know what you want, that takes you a long way dude!

Also, great idea, different, and you can move on somewhere again.

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Wow,
What a weekend that was. Remember to keep that pimp hand strong!!!

Fill us in man, what happened?

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The first time you get stood up its personal.
The second time it is a little frustrating...
The more it happens the less trivial it becomes.
She had my number but decided to flake without a text, or msg.

No Biggie, some people are just too scared to take a chance for something new.
She missed a great time and ultimately I don't want to be with some one like that anyways.
Younger girls are just so timid some times that's all, especially if they already have a BF.

So I waited for about 30mins had a coffee and read the news paper, I got up and said "Okay... to the NEXT one".

The following night I had another date with a girl that tracked me down through a friend. She is conservative, organized, down to earth... looks wise, maybe a 5.
I didn't really want to go on this date but you just have to be a man, keep your word and show her a good time. Just because someone sticks it to you doesn't mean you should pass it on to some one else.

My mojo was not at 100% but I managed to warm her up. We met at a bar and she ordered a WATER... I mean common really...
We really didn't have to much in common but did get some quality time in.

Could I have kissed her? Certainly... but I'm not looking for that right now... she is a great potential friend and knows tons of women.
I'm trying to set up a social circle, maybe this is a start to some thing new and wonderful.

J-Diddy,
Good positive mind frame man. Thats the way to be. I hope you the best of luck.

I wanted to share a story of one of my flaking experiences:
So me and my wing picked-up a beautiful set of russian women, one was an 8 and the other was a 9. We were sarging before, so our game was on point. We sat next to them because we were going to eat food. I opened the 8 (sitting across from me), while the 9 (sitting next to me) gave me a weird look (i will explain why later). I captured the 8 immediately and the 9 succumbed as well because she was interested in what me and my wing were saying. We spoke about relationships, horoscope signs, connections, movies, etc. My TGT, the 9, gave me a bad look because i opened her with something someone earlier opened her with, which was what language are you speaking...

Everything was going well, but my wing messed up my alphaness because he kept cutting me off or ignoring me (something we worked on so that it does not happen again and i have fully forgiven him; he was just being competitive because my game is better than his at the moment). Then, I set-up the number close and we both worked for a double date for a week afterwards (that was too late and we should have done something sooner).

My wing and I thought that the the girls were going to go. But when me and my wing showed up, the girls said that they did not like the location that we were going to go to, so they decided on going elsewhere. They were clearly testing us to see if we were going to follow them. Instead, me and my wing sarged and forgot about the girls. It was clearly the 9 who was controling the situation here because the 8 was down. I wonder what would have happened if I would have called earlier because I lost track of time since we were sarging some other hotties....

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Thx Lorenzo,
Yeah you've got to keep it fun a positive (pimp hand strong!!!). I think you guys made the right decision by not following, unless of course you just wanted to be friends. There are tons of women that won't date a guy until he gets the best friends approval stamp first.

J-Diddy, in a nutshell, you did great, and your approach, what can I say, perfect in my eyes.

Social circle with women can only build good things, especially if they think your kool.

Keep your attitude how it is, and mark my words, the women will flow!

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Thx Chelios,

I'm actually going to start doing more day game on a regular basis.
I'll send you guys the recordings once they are finished.
That way you can get a feel for my style...