I'm fine and I can attract most girls who i just want to mess with and never have a relationship with. I can talk smoothly and calmly and continue to have excellent conversation, but once it comes to a girl who I actually like i get really nervous and can't think clearly about what to say and how to approach her. Its like i suddenly lose my balls. Any help with this?

I usually am really attracted to the extremely popular girls in my school. They have loads of guys chasing them and they haven't gotten with any of them. They usually are just attention whores but for some reason i'm attracted to that. I'm the type of guy that wants what he can't have. So anyone have any tips?

Yes, stop putting her on a pedastool, treat her like you treat any other girl, if you cant get in that headspace look at her flaws which will temporaily lower your opinion of her. But for the bigger part work on getting the mindset that shes not above you. Girls dont seem to like men they can dominate.

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thannx for the post...i had the same problem. but i had trouble teasing girlz but, to help me i would just imagine them as my bratty sister or something and that would help.