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The reason that PUA isnt advised for Highschoolers, is that it is developed for the actual pickup scenario, 21+.
Most highschoolers who try it become PUA creeps. PUA creeps, meaning they analyze everything and every-one around them in terms of the game, and this certainly isnt a good thing. They approach a few woman with canned openers, and from experience, this does not work well. It can and sometimes does have the opposite effect that the person wished, they become more socially awkward and distant form the thing they are trying to accomplish: social acceptance, and high value.
Highschool is about building social circles and value. The more social value the better. EX: The "Hottest Guy" at school, the "best athlete" at school, whats stopping you from being "The Most Fun Guy To Be Around" at school? Yourself.
Im not going to outline how to become the man at school, because its in you, and you need to find it yourself.
Although some general guidelines are; Be cocky and funny, dont overcomplicate things, be social, dont be immature, and remember when your having fun and having a good energy, people around you are attracted to that.
Parties > WoW.
-Sil3nt
this makes perfect sense. guys like that do well with the ladies. they just act confident aka cocky sob's. but it works. what I've learned and applied is that I should be cockier and not so shy. I also just talk to girls like they are the ugly chicks I have always been able to talk to. and it's working! I naturally have a decent sense of humor which has helped me expand my social circle each year (I always become pretty good friends with at least twenty people every year, after moving to my high school just two years ago). I'm getting good at making girls laugh, but it's hard to tell what's funny cuz quite a few laugh at most things I say (in a good way). what I'm workin on is keeping my stance more alpha and maintaining eye contact with women. when I used to think girls were looking at me, I would just keep looking down, but now I'm more confident and look back. but I'm scared as shit to smile. I know it's dumb, but I don't wanna be creepy. any advice?
overall though, I think I can transfer some of the PUA stuff to high school and make it work. thanks for the help guys!