If you are dating a girl, who is good looking, but you know is not your type.. do you just string it along for the sake of keeping her for sex because thats all you want from her?

All you have to do is be honest and tell her youre not after a relationship yea?

I mean it kinda feels wrong to me, but all im after is sex... and if I am honest about this, its not doing wrong by her is it?

As long as you are honest from the beginning, meaning before you actually sleep with her, everything will be fine.

If you have been leading her into an implied relationship and now all of a sudden you want to be honest, prepare for some serious repercussions.

Your boy,
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That is why I go for open relationships.

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I too believe that 'telling a girl' that you're not looking for a relationship on the very first day is a great way to save your ass for the inevitable day.

She'll sit you down, or if she's smart, wait until she's swallowed the last drop of your cum and go, "So where's our relationship going?" (There are a few other versions of the same message)

Hey, PUA! This is your shot baby! Pull that fucking card out of the file cabinet! Ehmm. . .let's see, you're Jenny . . . no, Sarah. Hmm. . . Feb. 12, here it is. "I am not ready for an exclusive relationship." - This is what I told you 5 months ago. Don't you remember? Ha ha ha! Verbal contract right there in my files sucka!!!! (Shaking your head back and forth like your 7th grade history teacher adds to the dramatic effect)

Usually, they cry. Some continue to cry and some transistion to anger . . . others continue on to physical displays of disappointment. The worst . . . the very worst are the girls who hold it all in. "Oh . . . yeah, I totally agree. I just didn't want us to get carried away . . ." - Then they do that flakey act not too different from the day you met. (She's cool with sucking cock on the first date. She's cool with fucking a dude for 5 months thinking that he might actually find some interest in her someday. She's even more proud of how cool she is with honoring verbal 'bedroom' contracts on a drunken first date)

This is about when the PUA feels pretty good about himself. History tells him that 'this one is over' but he can pat himself on the back for 'telling the truth'(5 months ago) and he can feel good about 'leaving the girl better than he found her' - Hey . . . he taught her that she should learn to value verbal contracts more than her fucked up fantasy land dreams she learned from Walt Disney movies. So you walk away with a few thoughts in your head:

"Thanks for 5 months of pussy."
"The girl is delusional. I told her 5 months ago that . . . "
"I left her better than I found her."

But strangely, you still feel a bit weird. Hey . . .it's NOT MY FAULT AT ALL! . . . but you know she's feeling like shit and that makes you feel like shit. So you call up a few chicks. Nothing like fucking to get rid of that yucky feeling in your mind.

Then everything clears:

1. Go get more putang.
2. Make sure to offer them your verbal contract. (You'll need it later on!!)
3. Leave them better than you found them. (Works really well when you're not actually looking at them and while you're fucking a decent alterantive)

i sense irony....

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Salut!

Hey, we all are here because of sex. It all began with "The Game" in most cases and we wanted to improve our sex life. I am honest, if the girl doesn't ask me for my plans, I will not touch that subject. Like Patrick in DiCarlo's book. Don't mention it; if she asks you that before sex - don't lie to her, you may not get laid but you will surely avoid all these "I trusted you" cries. If she does so after sex - be honest, you know what you want.

Side note: I have to confess, one girl asked me that while doing bj. Everyone would lie in that situation so I don't feel guilty.

Salut!

Surielx.

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Here's my post from another thread. It all comes down to beliefs.

You know you're going to need a hell of alot of proof if you want anyone to take your opinion as a serious observation and not dismiss it like they do with the crazy on the corner of the street.

Proof? What religon are you? Chances are that it will agree with what I've said. And if it does, open your book n start reading. I'm not telling anybody what to do, cuz I don't wanna be labeled a hypocrite... But just a note, lying to a girl and not having pre-marital sex is better than being honest to her and having pre-marital sex.

And if you don't believe in a religon, or your religon doesn't say pre-marital sex/lying is wrong... then obviously this won't apply to you.

PuaKing...I'm sorry but that was a really weak argument
Let's ignore the books my nutjob ancestors wrote
And look at this from a rational angle

Lying to use someone is deceitful and causes them pain, and will in the long run cause you pain. You probably wont see her again and you'll have psychologically effected her in the long run, especially if you were the first person she likes. Note this example doesnt include sex.

On the other hand, two consenting people who both understand the terms of the "contract" as someone put it doesn't hurt anyone. Both people want to do it, and both members understand what the encounter is going to entail. "we're just hooking up, neither one of us wants a relationship"

Sex with someone you care about is always better imo, but two people having a good time>lying and manipulating to get something from someone

Well you obviously don't have a religon. That's cool, but don't diss on people who believe in a religon. Anyways, I fail to argue with you b/c it seems like you don't believe in a religon... so it'd be a waste of time.

I said in my post that I was ignoring religion and instead focusing on your argument, which was :

having sex before marriage is worse than lying to manipulate someone

But my argument was being backed up by religon... so that doesn't make
much sense.

Oh and don't try to make it sound worse lol... "lying to manipulate someone". A lie is a lie, and pre-marital sex is pre-marital sex.

I like the devil, he had fun. I bet he has a bachelor pad and is looking at this forum thinking "wait until they get a load of me", he has game that no one on here can come close too. snl's left, right and centre

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