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PostPosted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 11:53 am 
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hi folks!

in the past year i had many long distance things going, so i kinda lost the feeling on whats right when dating someone in the same city, i know, sounds weird.. :?

met a guy online, suggested to meet end of the week. i avoided going online the next few days, he got in touch asking a question concerning our date (the question was just a made up reason just to get in touch again). we met last weekend, did some sport, but only had about 10 min to chat afterwards since he had family from abroad at his place for the weekend.

he texted me same evening, want to do something soon.

he constantly is online at work, so i am only online invisible currently, dont think its good being in touch on a daily basis yet and dont want to ignore him which would be akward when you see the other one is online.

i didnt get in touch since (he probably expected me to ask him how he is doing since he felt muscle sores coming up and i teased him that he wouldnt manage to get out of bed the day after). i am planning to do that tomorrow, which would be the third day after meeting to suggest something for the weekend.

feedback appreciated!


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 2:25 pm 
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hi folks!

in the past year i had many long distance things going, so i kinda lost the feeling on whats right when dating someone in the same city, i know, sounds weird.. :?

met a guy online, suggested to meet end of the week. i avoided going online the next few days, he got in touch asking a question concerning our date (the question was just a made up reason just to get in touch again). we met last weekend, did some sport, but only had about 10 min to chat afterwards since he had family from abroad at his place for the weekend.

he texted me same evening, want to do something soon.

he constantly is online at work, so i am only online invisible currently, dont think its good being in touch on a daily basis yet and dont want to ignore him which would be akward when you see the other one is online.

i didnt get in touch since (he probably expected me to ask him how he is doing since he felt muscle sores coming up and i teased him that he wouldnt manage to get out of bed the day after). i am planning to do that tomorrow, which would be the third day after meeting to suggest something for the weekend.

feedback appreciated!
Personally, I think your trying to hard at playing hard to get maybe? I'd say go wit the flow, and just keep contact at a level unless your both online, don't purposly avoid him, that's how problems can start, especially if you like him.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 12:59 am 
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he actually initiated contact again today.. seems to be working.. ;)


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 8:09 am 
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he actually initiated contact again today.. seems to be working.. ;)
That's good, at the same time, restrict the game playing, it might come back to bite you ;).

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 9:01 am 
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Couldnt agree more with others. It may have been working but you LIKE HIM CMOON GIVE HIM A CHANCE! Not everyone is a pua you know ;)


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