So I met this chick at a party we hooked up slept together. Did not go all the way though just fooled around.

Anyways she says she really likes me and wanted to hang out today. The problem is I only want to hang out weekends because weekdays I work pretty early and I like to be alone and just chill and do my own thing. I think she got really upset when she invited me over and I said I couldn't today. She just replied ok i understand.

Anyways what do you guys think I should do!? I like her she is hot but I don't feel like going all the way over to her place today. I got out of work I'm tired and just want to watch TV and relax.

She is a 8-9.

Any1 ever have this issue!?!?!? HELP! I don't want to drive her away.

Well you definatly have the right outlook on life me first then girls, I think this outlook will make you very attractive to girls and I think that this particular girl will only become more attracted to you the more you blow her off to do your own thing, just don't take it to far, I would say that for every five times she asks you to hang out hang out with her once.

I mean no matter how attractive this type of outlook on life makes you (the ability to say no to girls when you want to do your own thing, that for some reason so few guys have) if you never hang out with her shes eventually going to stop trying, but you definatly havn't lost her by not going over tonight.

she wants you to be a challenge but not impossible.....

i would go every 2nd time she asks. 1 in 5 just seems too much of a rejection ratio. if a girl gives me the KB to hang out more than twice in a row she is cut off and even if she asks me out in future i wont see her again. some girls have a principle like this too. also when she wants you to see her but you really cant be arsed, say you have plans with friends or bullshit that your going to a concert or some sports event but suggest an alternative night/day together, so she knows you havnt lost interest altogether. stops her thinking your a user and an ass hole and looking for someone else. jus looks like you are busy, important and your time is valuable but you still wana see her. this is exactly the messages you want to put across.

hope this helps!

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Well set wanted to setup a date so we are going to hangout. So I guess she was cool with it.

She keeps telling me she thinks I'm a ladies man and a player this and that. And thats not even true but I guess its a good thing maybe its attracting her more towards me.

Maybe this PUA stuff is working lol?

wtf... you are doing everything perfectly and your worried about what... building too much attraction?

By saying no to hanging out you've taken her off her pedestal and shown her that just because she's an HB9 doesn't mean shyt, you titty fuk HB9's in church every Sunday. She feels more competitive pressure, she needs to do MORE to qualify herself to you, give you more attention or have sex with you.

As for how much you give a girl, you follow the 2/3 rule (Roissy). For every 3 times she invites you, you accept twice. For every 3 times she calls you, only call her twice. Your texts are always 2/3 the length of hers. This reinforces your higher social status and keeps her chasing you. Builds social anxiety (she knows you are able to walk away and you can bag some other hotter chick) AND sexual tension (you are not pussy whipped, she needs to put out a massive amount of vagina or else you'll just go fuk somebody else. She will internalize the need to pleasure you.)
Excellent, your player vibe has given her vagina tingles. She believes you are of high value, she is now going to try and have you to herself and pry you off the social market. If you give in too easily like an AFC, the challenge will instantly evaporate along with the attraction and gina tingles.

The problem with 80% of AFCs is that they get up to this point, and then they head over to the first date wreaking of desperation. Remember this, the hotter a girl is, the MORE desperate men she has come across, thus the MORE she is unattracted to desperation. Logically it would follow then, that hotter girls require you to build more social anxiety. When you're at a bar with an HB8, flirt with 2 other girls. When you're at a bar with an HB9, flirt with 3 other girls. If it's an HB10, seduce her best friend. You will not believe how much fuking attraction you can build if a girls close friend also likes you and how good the secks becomes.

The more she thinks that you might leave her for a better woman, the more vtps (vagina tingles per second) you will induce and the easier it will be for you to control the direction of the relationship.

Another note, she might attempt to backlash and completely withdraw and say "you're a player" or tell you "I don't talk to players" or some shyt like that. This is a classic shyt test, make sure you pass it. If she actually didn't talk to players, then she wouldn't be talking to you in the first place. HB 8+'s ALWAYS shyt test because they're too used to meeting emasculated pussies that they can vagina whip easily.

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sorry, the entire posting is the most hilarious thing i have read it deserves to be made a sticky..

LoL I agree.

Another question is should I text/call her daily?
We hanging out in the weekend already and I don't feel like contacting her just to bullshit talk. I'm not into small talk.
I'm the type of guy that likes to be alone do his own thing and block the world off in the weekdays and be the most social guy in the weekends. I not sure if this is a good thing or not.... I have driven off many hot girls like this because I just ignore them till the weekends LoL...

The last girl I tried to game before this one stopped talking to me because she gave me her number and I did not call her till two weeks later. Mind you she called me back but I did not notice so I missed the call.... called her back 20 min later no answer... she just ignores me now.

i wouldnt call/text her daily..always respond the same day, but take your time. i would initiate contact every three days after she has made contact. also depends on the circumstances and how close you get. keep her wondering between what you are up to and remain polite- its a thin line to the area where its disrespectful. only getting in touch on the weekends is too extreme..again, after she has initiated contact dont let more than 4 days pass, especially if you are having sex with her.

concerning the other girl with the two weeks: come on..

Yea I know x.X.