I'll try keep this short but its a bit of a long story.

Anyway, I met a hb9 at a party... Flirted very heavily.. she had to leave to work the next day but I had her number and we were both planning to meet at another party the next day. We did, then our little group moved to a club and we ended up making out on the dance floor and eventually going outside to fool around in a kiddie park nearby.

She was definitely ready to go home with me except I'm sleeping on a friends couch and she lives with her parents... So we said our goodbyes and arranged a date for a few days later.

One of the problems which was a bit inevitable is that I am visiting the city where this all went down. Hence the rush to see her every night, although that was mutual. And also she has a car which I dont, knows the places to go which I don't, etc. So basically I couldn't play the dominant role as I was more of a guest in her town.

Also maybe because of the lack of time it somehow went from her being all over me to me being all over her... Taking control and suggesting dates that were very soon in the future, and also trying to get her to a seduction location asap.

So the last date went ok, she picked me up from a train station, took me to her favourite restaurant then i took her to a bar I knew for a pint and chatting. Went ok but nothing more then we got back in the car and I suggested we go find a quiet spot with a nice view.

She said she has to go home soon because of work the next day but she'll go just for a bit... we drive to a place which was really nice but had nowhere to park, again she mentions that she wants to go home but i suggest we look a little more in anotehr area. She goes with it and we look some more and find an average place to park up and proceed to fool around in the car.

Problem was there were a few people in the area, not that we were doing anything too crazy but she constantly kept complaining about that, so we drove to another place that was better but she still complained about the privacy and that she needed to sleep until I just said ok.

I knew this was probably my last opportunity as I was leaving the next day so what else could I have done? If I just act like I don't care if she goes home and she does I still dont gain anything, even if I look like an afc being so persistent at least there is a chance it might work out. Am I wrong to have done this?

You could've just said something like "hey where's a cool place to hang out? I'm in the mood for xxx" she answers then say "yea let's do that" with vigor. Be in control, tell her where you want to go and what you want to do; doesn't necessarily mean you have to pick a place and make her go along with it.

Also, try and scout beforehand using internet and other methods. If she said 3-4x that she was tired, just leave it be. If she says it once, you might be able to convince her depending on her mood. If she says it twice then just say ok cool and leave it at that. Almost seems like you were dragging her along when she didn't wanna go, like dragging a little girl to the store when she was complaining.

Well I did that actually, I tried my very hardest to keep the dominant role, suggesting what we should do and just asking her for advice on the best place to do it. Including going off to the bar, the night view etc. The biggest problem was that shes driving me around like a pussy. She even ended up taking me back to my place, and didnt even come in for a coffee...........................

I really dont see what else I could have done

To continue the story on a little, I ended up by chance being back in the city again for a few more nights. Called her up a night or 2 before and told her and we had a nice little chat but when I got there she didnt answer her phone or return my call on the first night until really late, then said she had plans on the second. Really fucking gutted on this one, apart from being bloody hot she was kinky to boot :'(

Yea I've had that shit happen before. Just don't let it get to you and keep chuggin on. She'll be complaining next week about how she can't find any decent guys when there was one right under her nose.