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PostPosted: Sun Dec 12, 2010 7:12 pm 
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Don't hate the player... hate the game. How about blaming the women for being so attracted to guys like me? Maybe I just become an emotional AFC and get less women.

You are entitled to your opinion. But its just an opinion.
Focusing on a persons uniqueness isn't about worshipping, nor is it about being OVER-emotional*.

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It's actually quite funny that you compare yourself to the peak of attractiveness, (I should send my ex who used to be on this forum this thread, she'd laugh her ass off at what you've just said)

Truth is, while you'll get some sex there are plenty of people who get laid far more than you, are considerably better lays than you and are liked more than you... and... have the complete opposite belief to you.

Why is this so?

Well your ability to objectify people has probably played a big part in reducing your fear of approaching** as it did with me, but it's also meant that you have lost one of the most sexy parts about you. Which is your ability to be un-ashamingly 100% human and lost in the moment.

As long as you keep the borg mindset, you'll only ever be a "possible fuck".. not a very good one... hell you wont be that much fun to spend time around either.

You'd get laid alot more if you learnt how to connect.

* Thinking emotion is bad, is a big red flag, the key is appropriate emotion, not a complete lack as you seem to have interpretted it (as I did as well).

** In saying this I should point out that the fact that you objectify and categorise people is evidence that you have a fear of the very thing you objectify. (as I did as well)
-I never said people were not unique. I just said they can be replaced.
-I never said I didn't feel emotions and connections with women. I just said they can be replaced.
-I never said I was the peak of attractiveness. I just said women can be replaced.
-I never said your Exes opinion of me mattered. I just said women can be replaced.
-I never said I'm the best lay in town. I just said women can be replaced.
-I never said people without my mindset can't be successful. I just said women can be replaced.

Bottomline.. its not even that serious bro. Maybe I get laid so much because I don't take life so damn seriously. I have a good time and in the end we all drop dead.

For the 10th time --> GET OVER IT.

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^ This is called using people as a means to an end.

If you have Sara as a Fuck buddy, the function as your fuck buddy can be replaced, so can hanging out with her.

However HER, as an individual, not a source of something, cannot be replaced.
Functions are replaceable, people are not unless you try to hied yourself.

I tried it, many on this forum tried it, in three years here I can say with certainty you you are not the first nor will you be the last to try it.... but I'll tell you this much...it never ends quite the way you expected, nor half as pleasant.


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^ This is called using people as a means to an end.

If you have Sara as a Fuck buddy, the function as your fuck buddy can be replaced, so can hanging out with her.

However HER, as an individual, not a source of something, cannot be replaced.
Functions are replaceable, people are not unless you try to hied yourself.

I tried it, many on this forum tried it, in three years here I can say with certainty you you are not the first nor will you be the last to try it.... but I'll tell you this much...it never ends quite the way you expected, nor half as pleasant.
So every time a woman rejects me or breaks up with me I should sit around and sob about it for the rest of my life because she can never be replaced? Like.. never ever ever ever!!??

OR should I meet someone else and let life carry on?

Just because a woman as "an individual" can't be replaced (meaning 100% duplicated) that doesn't mean she is "good" or the best you can do. Sometimes there is something better out there for you.

All women can be replaced. They can't be "duplicated 100%" but they can definitely be replaced.

Its very rare you hear a woman say "OMG I'll never meet another guy like him.. he was so amazing and I ruined it!" Sure.. it happens but its very RARE. Because women know men can be replaced.

Most men still don't get it.

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I dont think i could ever replace anyone im friends with or family. You share a unique moment with them everytime youre with them. Each person i know and appreciate brings with them a certain personality that no one else could bring.

sure i could ditch them all, i could quite easily move away from my family and friends and start again but id only be adding not replacing.

Even that girl who gives you head on a trampoline with people walking by, sure the act could be repeated by someone else but the interaction surely could not. Even if you never even know her name, something pretty cool happened there. Love is when you realise that uniqueness and appreciate it.

okay i cant sleep and ive turned gay, sorry. inner game note: lack of sleep makes you gay.

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So every time a woman rejects me or breaks up with me I should sit around and sob about it for the rest of my life because she can never be replaced? Like.. never ever ever ever!!??

OR should I meet someone else and let life carry on?

Just because a woman as "an individual" can't be replaced (meaning 100% duplicated) that doesn't mean she is "good" or the best you can do. Sometimes there is something better out there for you.

All women can be replaced. They can't be "duplicated 100%" but they can definitely be replaced.

Its very rare you hear a woman say "OMG I'll never meet another guy like him.. he was so amazing and I ruined it!" Sure.. it happens but its very RARE. Because women know men can be replaced.

Most men still don't get it.

Woah boy, we're going a bit too fast here and assuming a little more than we should.

1. Who said anything about moping around and sobbing when someone leaves your life?

2. Uniqueness, individuality etc Doesn't have any real bearing on a persons worth.

3. Hang out with enough women and you'lll find that whole dirge is actually as common in women as it is guys.

Women are not the ones holding "power" in this world, tbh it was never really about "power"; she just a girl in a skirt, not some super-arrogant queen of men who passes up every man who isn't a super-model millionaire.


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Well don't blame the game, blame yourself for being greedy/unrealistic.

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So every time a woman rejects me or breaks up with me I should sit around and sob about it for the rest of my life because she can never be replaced? Like.. never ever ever ever!!??

OR should I meet someone else and let life carry on?

Just because a woman as "an individual" can't be replaced (meaning 100% duplicated) that doesn't mean she is "good" or the best you can do. Sometimes there is something better out there for you.

All women can be replaced. They can't be "duplicated 100%" but they can definitely be replaced.

Its very rare you hear a woman say "OMG I'll never meet another guy like him.. he was so amazing and I ruined it!" Sure.. it happens but its very RARE. Because women know men can be replaced.

Most men still don't get it.

Woah boy, we're going a bit too fast here and assuming a little more than we should.

1. Who said anything about moping around and sobbing when someone leaves your life?

2. Uniqueness, individuality etc Doesn't have any real bearing on a persons worth.

3. Hang out with enough women and you'lll find that whole dirge is actually as common in women as it is guys.

Women are not the ones holding "power" in this world, tbh it was never really about "power"; she just a girl in a skirt, not some super-arrogant queen of men who passes up every man who isn't a super-model millionaire.
Exactly.. she is just a girl in a skirt. And she can be replaced with another girl in a skirt.

That was my point from the beginning.

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Do not blame the game, blame your interpretation of what the game is. The game has no interpretation no blame.

The game is cause and effect, an objective method(s)
It is only for picking up women. a tool essentially.
after using this tool so many times some of us believe that the tool has made us make a mistake.

A chisel cannot make a mark without its sculptor

Pickup is objective not subjective

No moment is replaceable in the literal sense, every moment to exist is special. Nothing is ever the same. The present is a moment that is not replaceable.

Can a man literally replace that same women? no.
Can a man find a women whom is extremly similar? yes
A man can find women almost just like her but not perfectly of course.
That should end a replaceable argument. Can a person get the same no? but can get the similar who fills the needs/wants the same.
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As long as you keep the borg mindset, you'll only ever be a "possible fuck".. not a very good one... hell you wont be that much fun to spend time around either.

You'd get laid alot more if you learnt how to connect.
Good advice but yet just an opinion. psycho/sociopaths are very good at making people connect with them voiding the whole point. psycho/sociopaths diagnostic criteria includes being charming, usually just to manipulate people though.
It could be said that PU is the ability to be sociopathic or it could be said to be increasing empathy. sociopathic in the ability to read people and make logical descisions on how to behave(sometimes considered manipulation), or the opposite by reading people and giving better feedback to the person(empathy).
PU creates this rift between people. people who see pickup as a method that creates an effect on the targets vs people who see pickup as a way to connect to others.
sociopathic PU argues that all woman are the same/similar bc the same techniques work on women, while empathetic PU states that women may seem similar but are all different.

The argument here comes down to connection vs illusion of connection and women similarity vs illusion of similarity.

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Fin, Vaj,
He's not ready.
You can tell someone is ready when they start a thread like this.
You can stop hijacking this thread now lol


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