Hi all,

I'm not completely new to pua. I am familiar with a bit of the material out there but I'm still in need of that change from AFC to PUA or just a guy that can get chicks lol. Hopefully this site can help make that happen.

I've never had sex(intercourse) before I've been pretty damn close just couldn't keep it up and no I wasn't drunk just stupid damn anxiety and I wanna blame half of it on the condom lol. It's pretty much been half a year since I've even kissed a girl... fml. Wanting this shit storm to stop and get my life moving in the right direction.

Anyway I hope to be fairly active on this forum and applying stuff I learn and I wish myself the best of luck.

Cheers

Hey Brozki,

Welcome aboard. Don't fret about the V thing. Take one step at a time. Your easiest way of to learn is going to more applying rather then reading. So do what you need to do to get out there bro.

Peace

Welcome to the community. Virginity is not the issue here. More important than actually banging 100 women is having the power to do so. Your score is important in relation to your morals and your goals here, and to help find somewhat of a mentor who matches up with those ideals. Don't sweat the v-card.

Work hard, analyze, and apply.

Read, Sarge, Post.

Always Be Closing

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just keep trying, statistics are on your side

Don't sweat the V-card. Just some time, practice and knowledge and you'll get there man! Good luck!

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin.

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coming on here is the first step my man, i was a late bloomer like your self, you just need to set your standards really low to start off with then you will be getting loads of sex, i remember most of the women that i had sex with were quite big , in fact im quite like them now, something about a bigger women.... lol anyway welcome aboard : )

honestly pal, dont worry about it! this time last year I was in your shoes but 1 year younger. I can tell you now that having sex for the first time is a big deal untill you do it, then you are not bothered!

I was lucky enough to meet a nice girl at uni who i went out with for a year and recently broke up with on good terms. Now if you have no game like i used to then starting is the hardest part, there is a lot of material out there telling you what you should do, the truth is its all about doing the stuff that you are comfortable with and you think works for you! its all about playing to your strengths! Now i am absolutely terrible at chatting up girls but i am very comfortable on the dancfloor and pulled the fittest girl in my society at uni last friday.

I remember being at a cross roads where I had to make a decision, do I continue being the same guy who is shy and useless and never gets the guy or am I gonna be the guy that goes out there and makes the most of every opportunity. im not gonna lie its very hard to start with, that little voice in your head is your worst nightmare, the i started looking at it was that if i try to meet a girl in a club and it goes horribly wrong(and believe me it has), I just think... I will probably never see this person again in my life so why do i care what she thinks! and the more you try, the more you get turned down the easier it becomes. then when you start not to care what people say or think or if this girl is gonna like you or not thats when you are on your way! Im not gonna lie, if i go out and someone thinks im an idiot or they are not interested im not bothered in the slightest!

I might sound like i dont have a clue what im on about but trust me im talking sense! just go out there and make the most of your life, you only get one chance so make the most of it!

any questions pal and im happy to help!

gd luck!

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I know what you mean about the performance anxiety thing! The first two times I had intercourse, I didn't stay hard long enough to cum, so instead I went down on her and she on me (but I still couldn't quite manage to cum). It does get better, especially the less nervous you are. If condoms numb you too much I highly recommend a brand called SKYN. They're the thinnest I know of and you keep more of your sensitivity.

I'm very new to this as well. I've always been the shy nerdy type who never approached women and I lost my virginity less than half a year ago (at the age of 30). Still trying to figure out what it was I did right! Perhaps it was just luck.

Anyways, sex is fun and I'd like to repeat the experience. Hopefully I can learn how to make that happen more often. Welcome to the board!

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