approach anxiety is planted in us by an evolutionay process (40,000years ago when we used to live in tribes of 50-60 people with very few girls apt for marriage & if you approach a wrong girl you would get murdered by her spouse or the tribe so this is the reason we have approach anxiety) now the SOLUTION-DO NOT MASTURBATE or WATCH PORN until you fuck someone you will find it much easier to approach girl.The biological need to reciprocate(fuck) will overpower your approach anxiety.Evolutionary problem needs evolutionary solution

It makes me much more nervous being all loaded up when approaching a girl, because I know I want something from her that's not her.

I rather get in the mood, while talking to her. She isn't horny when I say hi to her either, she will be when I talk to her longer and escalate, We reach our hornyness together.


And all the evolutionary psych in pick up is nothing but mental masturbation in the first place.


There is no instant cure for approach anxiety, thinking that gets you stuck with AA even longer, "GODDAMN IT ITS STILL NOT GONE"

AA itself is something the community came up with to keep guys in their programs. IT IS NOT A BIG DEAL


So now I'll spill the beans on how to really get rid of so-called 'AA'

APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH

After enough of approaches, your AA still won't be gone, but you learned how to deal with it, how to blast through it.

It only becomes easier after each approach.

AA doesn't magically dissappear, it takes time.

Accept your AA, then work on it, because fuck it, who doesn't want to talk to that cute girl, she is loads of fun.


And yes, it should be difficult, when it's difficult, you're learning.

Excuses like: I'm not in the mood. Point out what you should be working on. (approaching when you're not in the mood)

When you learn to do things without any regards to excuses why you shouldn't, you add power to yourself. You creat confidence.

I hardly ever jerk. Mostly cause Im not in the mood.
Definitely doesn't not help my anxiety. Might for others, just not me.

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Vaj,

this asian you use in your signature is even better than the last one.
It's hypnotising me!!!

Oh, btw, good advice

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So this is fact huh lol I love when ppl relate pick-up with 'way back when' b.s.

I have a problem with porn. When I don't watch it does it it seem to help with my interactions with women? Sure. Does it relieve my AA? Nope.

First of all this remedy was given by MYSTERY
2nd i never used this, but a friend said he used this and it worked for him now
today is my day 2 of masturbation free life once i see the results i will get back to u

right now i m not in a position to say anything but for me trying this remedy is getting remedy is getting very difficult as i masturbate approx. 7times in 2 days
so i can understand why people deny this method because it is damn hard to fucking apply it but easy to rationalize and avoid

Don't polute the forum with shit you're not even sure about whether it works. And sure as motherfucking hell don't say shit because some guru claimed it helped. find out yourself.

Stop being a keyboard jockey.

Interesting! I like this idea. I've never had much approach anxiety but one of my buddies does. I'll pass this idea on to him. He'll start chatting with ladies quick! lol

This is very possible. Actually i thought that i should quit masturbating anywayr. Thanks for the tip

I don't think so.

The solution to approach anxiety is to just do it.

For example, think about girls (or guys) when they pluck their eyebrows. They don't just sit there thinking "OMG THIS IS GONNA HURT AGHHH HEREE GOOOEESSS NO WAIT NO WAIT OKAY ALMOST HOLD ON". They just pull the hair.

Just approach.

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for those who misinterpreted my post,no matter how much u approach, approach anxiety will always be there but if u don't masturbate your urge to be with a female will over power approach anxiety.But there is a possibility that your urge might reflect your need to be with them and neediness results in failure

Experience overcomes approach anxiety.

I do agree on one point, approach anxiety will never leave, but then again it does.

Once you have approached 100s of women, what's 101 going to matter? By then you've learned to push through your fear and that fear becomes something else: excitement.



But seriously dude,

stop making threads untill you did your 100 approaches.

OP sounds like a troll lol