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If you wanna lie, go ahead. I'm 17, and in college. I rarely see 18 or 19 year olds so I'm forced to game 20+s.
Like people say, there's only a problem if you think there is a problem. Maybe you should look at this as improvement. If they're going to lose interest because of your age, then your game may not be as strong as you like.
Agreed. If a woman asks how old you are at first, then she's questioning in her mind whether or not you are old enough for her. Other than looks, your behavior is the next thing to tip her off about this.
If you lie about your age then you are just proving what you are already showing through your behavior, that you are uncomfortable with it. The reason may be you are uncomfortable with your level of maturity.
I have this dilemma sometimes as well, as I am a college freshmen at the age of twenty four. Once I start defending my age or the reason why I am here at this age, it becomes a problem.
To them, the question is "you're twenty four and you're a freshman?"
To me the question is "You're going to judge me on that and you know nothing about me? You're not the type of person I'm looking to associate with."
If it's not a problem to you then it won't be a problem to anyone else. Look within yourself and improve what you need to so this does not become a bigger issue. You are 18. That is nothing to be ashamed of. Everyone 18 or older has at one point been your age, and most people under it will be eventually. It's not like you have micropenis or a lisp.