U a mo mo?

i thought you sounded younger to be honest mate.

wonder if you should tell girls your a virgin? interesting cos some girls will be turned off by your lack of experience and preselection but some will like the idea of being your 1st. maybe test different approaches to the subject on random girls, in bars and stuff rather than on a LT-T

i jus coined a new phrase i think, and a good one cos i think we all have a LongTerm-Target in our lifes. not a target you have just met, a girl in your social circle, work or school life, preventing you from all out gaming due to possible repercussions, you have been steadily workin on since you met over weeks and maybe even months, i currently have one at work (2 weeks), typically they get inside your head

once you have field tested approaches, try the most successful ones on your LT-T's and most future targets. trial and error or 'target practice' as i call it. its the only way to find out what stuff works for you. all other girls outside your LT-T's are target practice, getting your skills fine tuned for the girls you really want.

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Mate, if you're a virgin, stay a virgin until marriage. That's cool. There's nothing wrong with that. It's cool to save it until marriage.

If you know she's not marriage material, don't waste your time or hers.

Being a virgin is cool. It's only sad or pathetic if you're not comfortable in yourself. I'd love to be a virgin but with the current knowledge I have. I'd save it all for my wife. That would be cool if I could be in that situation.

Edit: I'm a 26yr old ex model, and have had sex with more women than I can remember, and much more than I can name. I currently have 7-8 fuck buddies available when I want them. I've got all this and I would love to be in your situation as a virgin.

Think it out, I have sex whenever I want it. It's no longer something special with my FB's, it's just sex. I'm still into an my last ex. With her it felt fantastic, like an emotional connection as well as the physical one. We split up because I was still with my FB's as when I was with her. She knew what I was like before we got together, but thought she could cope with it. I lost my best ever GF because I'm basically a sex addict. Trust me, being a virgin is actually very cool.

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wtf Scyth ?

This is such a load of BULLCRAP

being a virgin is not "cool" and not "uncool"
it just states if u had sex or no...

and sex will "stop being special" even with ur wife after a while

I'm sorry but my first time was awkward and NOT amazing or special or whatever, but after a while I became good, and I can actually pleasure a girl... you know why COZ I HAVE EXPERIENCE

it's good to be experienced, I don't like unexperienced girls, sex is akward and lame with them... I much rather enjoy sex with someone who is not ashamed of themselves and someone who I can connect to

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Street light back you up 100%.

How is it bullcrap?

I've popped my cherry and had loads of sex. I wish I was 26, still a virgin, and able to have my first time with someone I want to spend the rest of my life with. For me, that would be the coolest thing ever!

I understand what you're saying about your first time being awkward. Mine was too. My sisters mate, in a unisex bathroom of a club, at my sisters 20th birthday. Not something I am proud of. There's only 4 people that know how my first time was. I can't even remember her name. It began with a B or a D, I think.

I love the idea of still being a virgin. I think it's a brilliant position to be in.

If you could, would you go back and be a virgin again? If I could, it save it for marriage.

Don't get me wrong, I've popped, so I'm just going for more and more outlandish stuff! Just so that there's a new novel feeling to it.

I've slept with many women and done loads of crazy things with them. But I'd give it all up to have 1 night with my soul mate, whoever she is.

Maybe I've just watched too many love films in the last few months, but that really is how I feel, right now.

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Seriously man? seriously?

I would rather make this something special by having amazing sensual sex, which someone unexperienced cannot give.

Your problem is that your making too much of a big thing out of it.. and what happens AFTER you had your special night with this special someone...? No more sex with your soulmate after one time?

Your ridicules man

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I just love the idea that there is one person out there that will make time slow down when you're together. One person you would love with every piece of you.

I'm a dreamer. The idea of pure perfect love is brilliant and I hold my hopes that I will find that person. My last GF is a perfect example. I didn't realise she was a virgin until I was fingering her, and my fingers came out rather red. I thought "You're on your period and didn't say a thing?! WTF?!" but I didn't say anything to her. Later on that night we were just snuggling up on the sofa (we hadn't had sex at this point) and she said about how she was a virgin and saving it for marriage. That explained the blood and why it stopped shortly afterwards.

I totally respected that. But when you get into old habits and you don't even think what you're doing, accidents happen. Just getting on with snuggling and all that, next thing I realise she's naked on top of me, riding me. She was tight, and instead of bouncing up and down, which is painful to both of you if you're gifted, she was grinding back and forth. Just how I prefer it.

Every time we are together it feels better than the time before. Granted she can't give hand jobs, but no woman can!

If I knew she was the one, I wouldn't mind not doing anything with anyone else.
I'd probably masturbate much more, but wouldn't have sex with anyone else. And I'd be happy with that.

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Your making too much of a big thing out of sex... I don't mean the quality of sex, that's obviously important in the relationship, I mean the: fact that your having sex.
There's nothing wrong about being sensual and nothing weird about wanting to love just one person, that's perfectly great.

What's amazing should be the act itself, not THE FACT THAT YOUR DOING IT.

as I said before virgin is neither cool or uncool, it just states if u had sex or not

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

That makes sense.

Sex is just a physical activity.

Virgin is a classification.

I'd say, save it for marriage. I'm a dreamer of the idea of "The One"

Nice one StreetLight. You've helped clear my head a bit as well. Thanks.

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personally im glad i lost my virginity early(15). it gave me a confidence with women that none of my mates had at the time and that got me a lot more sex, leading to more confidence leading to more sex, leading to.....you get the picture. there was girls i knew that wouldnt have looked at me before but afterwards they were cos id 'done it'. experience counts so go get some. the more girls you fuck, the more tricks and tips you pick up and the better at it you are. try and be open minded and adventurous too. fill yer boots lads!

my teen years and my life in general would have been a lot less interesting if i hadnt lost my virginity til my twenties say.

i think its mad that on a pick up forum guys are saying you should stay a virgin. not that i dont think everyone is entitled to an opinion. but this is mine.

i loved my first girl and still think bout her a lot but im glad to fuck im not still with her cos ther are memories of random girls, fuck buddies, 1 night stands that will put a smile on my face for the rest of my life. think if i only fucked one girl all my life i would look back at my life as an old man and think wtf?

i just cant see one benefit to keeping it till marraige. glad that im a top shagger!

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- Giacomo Casanova

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