Hello, My name is Nathan. I am 21 years old. Not very good with girls. I have slept with only one girl in my life, one time.

(I dont know why, she was fat and from detroit, but she said I was sexy and wanted to bang me so I invited her to party and it happened, kind of an epic virginity loss story if you want to hear it lol)

I have never had a girlfriend. I honestly havent had friends for a very long time, only about a year. I use to play video games since I was about 12, so most of the people where I live do not even know me. About a year ago, I made a facebook and added everyone from my town on it and met a friend that i still hang out with and made alot of friends along the way. I am proud of myself for that, mostly because I have always been extremely shy. I am insecure deep down but alot of the time i can manage to pull off the "I am confident" stature. Which is why I think the girl actually had sex with me. I am over weight, but I read a few posts on this thread before i signed up, and a few said that looks dont matter, its about confidence. I am interested in learning how to talk with girls and overcoming the fear. I am always nervous when I talk to a girl, even if I knew her for ever.

For example: I have a friend named adrienne whom I have known for like 8 months now. And I STILL get nervous talking to her. If my friends are around, I care too much about what they think about me which makes me nervous to talk to her. One on one i am nervous and dunno what to say. But yeah, I am new to this website!!

I have one question for now. Are there any threads that you reccomend that I read as a newcomer to this site and being new to the ways of a PUA?

Nice to meet you.

In the future, you will appreciate the pigs you banged.

Hehe, thats probably true

My goal is to try and overcome social anxiety and shyness, and imrpove my game. I fear that because I am 21, and never had friends before i was 20, except over the internet, that I will never be any good. I just hope that it is possible to make up for all of those lost years and become good at being social, and finding out who I am, because I have no idea.

I want you to look at this blog. This person has many personal experiences he has over come and has been in tough situations. Subscribe and follow him, he will help you.

http://trustyourlifejourney.blogspot.com/

Hmm, that was insightful. I am really trying to make myself happy, because I tend to struggle with depression and insecurities. I mean I am fat, socially awkward, shy, I think I am ugly and always feel low about myself. That link I just read basicly told me to stop caring what other people think of me and live for myself, to some extent. Always strive to better myself. Goto college, get a job, stick to my beliefs and morals. Not to give in to someone just so that they will like me. It tells me that I should stop trying to impress people and just be me and be proud of who I am and accept myself for who I am, and if I do that good things will come to me. People will be happy to be around me and be grateful that I am their friend/man. Thats what I learned from that.

I am going to start applying positive thoughts and positive things to my life and try not to let things get me down.

Good! Thats exactly what you should learn from that! Go on the blog and follow it, subscribe to it, there are going to be many new posts on it that you will benefit from!

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Alright

Is there anything else that I should read as a newcomer to this website? Something to help me get familiar with the acronyms and ways to boost my confidence and find myself in some way? I do not think I am quite ready to start trying to be a PUA just yet. I think I need to become confident in myself before I do that. Like getting better at conversing among friends and stuff.

Go to the "Building an attractive life style". Try to find yourself, before you find the girls.

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very interesting posts on the blogs man I would highly recommend everyone to read from the forum, real confidence booster as well

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Thanks man, please spread the word then. THe main thing I need is people to follow it, subscribe, so then i can relate them back to this website so in the end PUA gets the benefits.

Please help me promote?

Also subscribe and follow x

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