| Once again I went out last weekend (sorry this one's a bit late) and once again I was on top of my game!
First off me and my buddy (not a fellow PUA) decided we'd wait untill later than normal to go into town and hit the bars, some of our friends were'nt getting back from a football match untill later so we figured we'd just stay in our local then get ready at his place
So, 9 O'clock comes around and we're too bored with waiting for our friends and decide to hit town without them...
We decide to hit one of the busiest yet quietest and most stylish bars on the stretch, and I see a few guys I know, I get talking to them and we're laughing like old times (they were old work colleagues)
I then decide to go out for a cigarette (Yes even I have at least ONE flaw! HA!) so I'm smoking away, and see a nice little 3 set, get talking to them, did the "Do I look gay opener"... This is when you approach a set saying "I'm very sorry to interupt, but do I look gay or something? because some dude just tried to pick me up at the bar" and look confused... Works like a charm, so I open just to get warmed up and we have some good fluff talk
I return back to my friends who is talking to some chick who is friends with his ex, they seem to be getting on ok, then the chicks who I was talking to outside while smoking come in and spark up conversation (they re opened the set) and we all really looked like we were having fun... Proving Good Social proof, we're stood in a central location in the bar where we could see everybody, and everybody could see us having fun, I decide to put a good Gambler trick into good use, I do the scanning room for hot chicks thing and I lock eyes with a proper little cutie!
Now this chick is making really good eye contact... so I hold my gaze too, and wait for her to break contact, this hapens maybe two or three times and I'm getting more cheeky with my eye contact, I give her a cheeky smile, and start looking at her seductively... This seems to be going on for at least 10 minutes, and my friend turns to me and says "We're gonna hit the next bar, drink up" So I finish my pint and place it on the side...
I approach the girl who is with a friend who is talking to the bouncer, while walking up to her I don't break eye contact untill I'm just about to talk to her, and make it look like I'm walking past her, then I turn and say "I'm sorry, but I really couldn't pass the oppurtunity to introduce myself after the looks you were giving me"
I was just about to give me her my name when she says "I already know who you are"
"Really?" I reply
"Yeah, we went to school together, I was like 4 years below you and you used to look after me on the bus ride home, we used to get off at the same stop..."
"Oh My God You're not little J are you?" (We'll call her J)
"Yeah!!!!!" giggles
Then we reminisce about school days very briefly as I just remember I was supposed to be leaving, "Anyway J, I can't talk now I'm just leaving, if you give me your number I'll txt you later to see where you got to" So I've number closed without really saying much
I cannot state how much eye contact doesn't get used!
Use it, your eyes are the first thing a woman looks at, you know why? Because it's the brightest part of your face and women get drawn to it! so whether its eye contact, accross a room, at the bar, in a set, opening, approaching and especially once isolated, used it and build from there if they make eye contact with you this is them wanting to be talked to, so Escalate from there, a simple opener like what I used is sufficient! Say "I noticed, that you noticed me so I thought I'd introduce myself"
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