hi guys. im in highschool and im talking to this girl. im new here so i dont know anything about stages of attracion or any technical terms but its going well i was going to ask her out but she dose a ton of stuff. she is never free. i know she aint just saying this stuff to say no because i didnt ask her out, just what her schedule was like for the week. she dose stuff literally every day. no idea where to go from here.

second question is at least 2 other guys are trying to get her to notice them. i reckon im in the lead SPAM, but every now and then they will do / say something that makes me look realy stupid. im just not sure how do deal with these guys like an alphamale, so some tips on being alpha would be nice.

lastly are there any stickeys that outline the basic routine i should do. like opener>attraction>(ive seen people talk about all sorts of shit like creating comfort, building tension e.c.t.>close

i see people talk about those things but i dont know when i should do what

I suggest you do a search on this site for books on attraction and inner game. And I recommend you start reading the books pertaining to inner game and confidence FIRST. Once you get familiar with the material and start to feel comfortable, you will know what to do. If you want to become successful with women, stickeys with an outline will not suffice.

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ok cool. if someone could give be a brief description of what things are would be great before i start. im going to learn them in more depth obviously, i just feel of of my depth

For your situation, scope out the other guys and see what kind of people they are, and if you're more interesting than them, SHOW IT. As long as you stand out you're golden. You basically have her reeled in if she says "I just dont know what it is about you"

ok cool. well guy 1 is a total prick in the year below. she dosnt like him, full stop, but hes a prick to me too wich makes me look quite beta. im not worried about them going out, im just not sure how to deal with him without loosing face.

guy number 2 is also a cunt. hes not very interesting, but then im not exactly great either. most people hate him and i dont think he has many friends, but they both do music and get on ok i think. they went to an opera together and when i said poor her she said hes not as bad as everyone says. he might be a danger. he keeps pulling dick moves too. today i was talking to her and go up to fetch my bag. after being up for 5 seconds he jumped into my seat to be by her (total afc). problem is there where no other seats so i ended up sitting in the middle of them which made me feel (and probably look) like a complete tool. i wanted to punch his lights out there and then.

OK the first guy is really easy, just stand up to him. I dont mean get into fights and confrontations, just dont even acknowelge him and stand your ground when he tools you. Gimme some examples of shit he does and I can give better advice, I've had to deal with something like this back in HS too.

Second dude sounds a lot like the first one lol
but never say "I'm not exactly great either." because odds are you're of more value than both of these guys, and if she's smart she knows it. My advice is if you really like her dont beat around the bush and just let her know. Confidence is one of the most powerful DHV there are.

you're also lucky to be the "new guy' as you're something fresh and different, as most people go to high school with mostly the same exact people for 4 years.

ok yeah. like i said i was going to ask her out today, but she wasnt free. im not sure how to ask her out as such because usuraly i say im going X at Y' o clock, you should join me, but i dont think it will work this time. just saying i like her straight out seems like a bad idea too because it takes out any mystery.

one problem is she lives a bit away from me and i dont have a car, so i cant realy get to her that easily. this means im Dependant on her wanting to drive for a while to meet up, which again means i cant realy ask if she wants to meet up some time for a casual get together.

i reckon SPAM i have her but if i leave it she could friend zone me. just not sure what to do. we have alot of spare time at school most days so i was wondering about trying to kiss close her at school some time. then im hopeing she would sort of presume an attraction so it takes the pressure out of asking if she wants to meet up. im guessing this will be hard though. and it might be hard to get us alone to close it. + im new and not great at this stuff yet so might well balls up

You've got the right attitude, but you might be overanalyzing it. A girl drove 1.5 hours just to have a fucking malt at portillos with me, if she really likes you back she'll drive.

I say just go for it, especially since you're in high school and trust me you'll look back on it and just think "why didnt I go for it" if you pass up the oppurtunity.

I only opened up senior year of HS, and I wasted the previous three years by not having enough confidence to get what I wanted.

yup sounds bout right. i am going out with her best friend on saterday (just as friends, she as a BF who im m8's with) so i was going to invite mer along then, but when i asked if she was busy she said fully booked all weekend. should i just invite her anyway, knowing she will say shes busy, but then follow on by saying thats a shame cus we should hang out. or should i wait untill she can say yes to the first suggestion? i could always just sugest we get together without saying any specific time and ask her to txt me when she is free.

ok shit guy #2 is a threat. today he was making tons of sexural comments and later on he started feeling her up. he said it was part of the comfortability aim. and then he started feeling my leg and working his way up it to verify it was a game. i said if he went any further i would punch his lights out and he promptly stopped

so i want to know how to AMOG the shit out of this guy. make him look like a bug in her eyes. i also noticed im getting real angry and aggressive thoughts. im thinking these are bad. how to i act more ALPHA and less emotional. i dont look threatening and arent charismatic so people generally dont do what i say. it makes me look quite submissive so people i am physicaly much stronger than and i hate it. i dont want to look like a pussy but i dont want to look like a thug either.

how do i act more alpha and make this kid look like a total shit like he is (i dont think this is jealousy speaking as everyone hates him).

Hm compatibility game? I've only rarely had to AMOG people, but if the girl really hates him like you say its fine. Just call him out on his comforability game (wtf is that btw) "dude stop looking for excuses to touch me, I know I'm hard to resist"

not sure she hates him... just the vast majority of people. tbh i have no idea what that game was. i think he was testing how comfortable she was with him touching her up. i cant tell whether she let him because she likes him or wanted to comply with his game. i think it is where you do weird things to people to see how much they can take. hate to admit it but this chump might have come up with a good idea for a kino routine with some tweaking.

im thinking of just putting my nuts on the line and asking her out as soon as i can tomorrow. also i realy need to know how to emasculate this kid without beating him to a pulp. ive never been good with words or very witty.

I have to admit, his idea needs work but you're right; it's not a bad kino routine.

Good luck man, let us know how it goes

Do some research on DHV's and ascribe the opposite traits to your AMOG, they're hardwired into a womans brain so on an unconscious level they will kill any attraction before it rears it's head. Ihave found the best ones to be "neediness" and "tryhard" act as if your a skilled PUA used to interacting with nice girls and he hasn't got a clue by offering advice beginning with "have you never had a girlfriend............"