I try to meet new hot girls from my school, I even add them on facebook and try to talk but it's impossible. I can't neg them or anything like that because I got blocked last time and told I'm a douchebag. I can't start off saying, "Hey I noticed you looked pretty..." that will just give her the impression of, "Oh wow, he added me because I'm pretty" and I can't try and strike up an interesting conversation about different subjects because she'll KNOW that I added her for a reason and it will make me come across as a pussy by not letting her know.

First of negging DOES NOT MEAN insulting her

Think of it as being excited over what others would perceive a flaw. NOT CALLING HER OUT ON IT. that's being an asshole.

And, did you read what kasabi wrote in your other thread?

It applies to this situation aswell.

What's your point of talking to them? what do you want to get across?

Don't let them FIND OUT ABOUT YOUR REASON, convey your reason, that's the whole essence of game.


You don't call over a friend for fishing and show up with a huge dildo instead of a fishing rod (credit: kasabi)

I guess it makes sense. I thought that conveying my reason would blow my cover and make me seem easy to get but since I AM the person who started the talking then it's logic. This hot girl from my HS accepted my friend request, I'm going to put up on here what I've said to her.

Alright, after the hot girl accepted my friend request, I checked out her profile. It said that she's "married" for her relationship status but she's in high school. I sent her a private message titled, "it's too bad that ur married.." (to get her interest) then the message was: I was looking through my friend's friend list nd saw this interesting looking girl so i added u (kept it short and direct, but saying that she's pretty in a subtle way, so now the weight is on her shoulders meaning that it's her turn to respond, i didn't want to open up other subjects for the sake of the length of the message)

Note: this girl is an HB10 with an attitude-look to her face so I said she was "interesting looking" to keep it mature and not all caveman-like saying "you're prettyyyy"

You all may be wondering why I even told her how I added her and that was to not SEEM like a creep! Instead of adding her and saying, "Hi", I literally told her the reason I added her to keep it natural

Let's see what see says

Her reply: "hah interesting looking"

It seems I got her, separated myself from all the other guys.

My response: "ye, either spanish or czechoslovakian" she looks czech to me and I also googled her last name and it's Spanish. I sent the message from my mobile (so she'll be able to tell) to show that I'm busy, interesting, etc. I know that I'll most likely be right on this one even if other people have told her she looks Spanish. It will just help me and her connect faster as she would approve of my "guess"

i believe that sending a message via cellphone is a bad idea. It's look like your desperate on replying them.

AFC NEO

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This is like online dating... maybe talk to her in person get her number then you can text her that is more proper