hello everyone, i am currently on my way on becoming a druggie loser and im trying to find something to keep me out of trouble. I tried looking for a hobble but the only thing that conceivably might work would be getting a nice girl and having her keep me on the right track. I dont think i want a gf solely for this reason, but its definitely high on the list. So do you guys think that having a gf, for all intents and purposes, just for this reason is a terrible idea?
Okay, so im in highschool and im pretty much known as a "badass", i've been arrested multiple times at school, and eventhough this saying this is quite sad, but truthfully, it did boost my reputation and cred very much. There is this one girl, homecoming queen/class president (she is needless to say, a desirable girl) and she seems to have been interested in me (shes felt my body many times, hugs on sight). Eventhough ppl tell me shes filrty w/ everyone, i only see her reallly pay any attention to me when im around her. so im going to disregrd that. But basically, i dont know how to get from hugging and making small talk to confessing my feelings for her, cuz i do actually kind of like her.
I was thinking of this scenerio: how about i tell some of her friends that i think im interested in her, and i suspect she reciprocates these feelings, and also for some reason, whenever i hear of someone who likes me, i kind of start to like them too. So i thought that was worth mentioning.
My parents took away my car and credit card so i have no means of actually taking her out b/c b4 i staarted getting in trouble, we were going to hang out.
Essentially, i want to make it known that im interested, and i awnt to knkow for sure if she is into me too. but i dont think i want to ask her that, but im afraid if i let it "slip" to her friends then ill come off as a vagina.
And i really need someone in my life that will help me steer clear of this path of self-destruction, b/c honeslty im just at my wits end!
Help!

Having a gf to get you off drugs is a bad idea. The reason you're on drugs could easily be related to another issue. Just because you have a gf doesn't mean that issue is resolved. So if that's the case, it's a really bad idea and you risk dragging her down with you.

I mean no offense by this, but if you're in trouble with your parents (car and credit card), with the police, and I'm guessing a few other people, do you really think you'd be a good boyfriend to her?

Personally mate, sort yourself out first, then when you're in a position where you can stay out of trouble, then maybe consider a girlfriend.

p.s. Girls like a bad boy, so you don't need to worry about losing the reputation. A reputation lasts a long time.

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This truly sucks!!!