I know it says in The Game that you're not supposed to pay for girls or w.e because they lose respect for you but how do go about not paying for them, like what if they expect it ! What do you say ! :O

I have a girlfriend, and I make her pay most of the times. sometimes, ill call it a date and well dress and go out, and ill pay for those special occasions.

also, I'm in college, so its expected that people pay their own shit

I've never had a problem with paying. E.G for dinner, maybe 1-2 drinks here and there. BUT this was only if I was in a relationship with her. Or a first date situation.

Afterall we are MEN

The point is not to pay for a girl TO GET IN HER PANTS or BECAUSE SHE EXPECTS YOU TO, but to pay for her if you want to pay for her, nothing wrong with that

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

I end up hooking up with a girl while back buying her a drink.

Thing is, It was last call and I was buying a drink and the minimum was 20 $ on credit card. 2 girls were standing next to me so I bought 4 bottles of Bud Light to reach my 20 $ and gave them each 1 and walked away. They came and found me like 5 minutes later.

So I guess you can buy drinks if your expecting nothing in return.

I'm a bit of an ass when it comes to paying.

When the bill comes after a meal stand up and do the "where's my wallet" pat-down. Then say "Oh dear, have you got money? I'm not sure where my wallet it" if she says yes then you just reply with "Wow, that's so embarrassing. I'm paying next time." That way you're guaranteeing a second date.

If she's not got any cash, do the wallet pat-down again and, oh how embarrassing, it was in my back pocket. Phew, glad I found it.

If it's in a bar with drinks then a line I've heard and recommended comes in good; "What are you broke? You buy me a drink. I'll buy the next round." It's not failed me yet or got me slapped. It's a neg and forces her to qualify herself to you by buying you the drink.

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This truly sucks!!!

I usually introduce myself then after a while of talking, I take them to a nice little secluded spot and offer them $50 for a blowjob.......wait, what?

I ask them for $50 to go down on them! Haha

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This truly sucks!!!

When they say "Don't buy girls drinks".. that's not what they mean.
The Idea is not "not to spend money" the idea is not to appear needy, and try buying them off with a drink

you gave a BAD example, coz that shows you a bit as a wuss

better scenario
"buy me a drink"
"sorry, I don't buy girls drinks.. but you can buy me one"

it's an oldy but goody, works better then you might expect

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

I am talking about in the Book The Game when he Style goes out with the girl from the band or w.e and he says lets split the check cuz he was taught not to pay.

Touche!

"Oh shit!.. I forgot my wallet.. ok here's what we'll do on the count of three we'll both leg it out that door over there.. ok.. ONE.. TWO.. I'm being deadly serious!.. Yes I've forgort to lift it earlier.."

She will eventually pay

"That's one I owe you.. how can I make this upto you?"
(looking her up and down with sexual eyes)