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PostPosted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 1:08 am 
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Ignoring a bitchy girl MAY get her to come to you and all but if you don't confront and put her mind to work so she'll feel sorry, chances are she'll never come back (just the way I see it). There are some bitchy girls out there that give me attitude. Here are some of my responses recently

Me: I commented on your facebook profile picture
Her: Why?
Me: Because you look dazzling in it
Her: Lmao who says that
Me: Be thankful I use a better vocabulary than most guys on you (at that point I thought wow so I compliment you and all and you're a bitch)
Her: If you say so
Me: I was just being nice but it turns out you're just being bitchy (oh you still want to continue being a bitch huh?)
Her: Lol, I'm a bitch to everyone
Me: I have more respect for someone who admits they were wrong. Whatever, c ya.

Another girl..
Me: Check out this trick, go to google translate and type this in and listen blah blah (cool beatbox sound made by the robot who translates words by the words typed in)
Her: Lol wtf, i don't have time.
Me: Hehe..I didn't say "now".

I don't know but when a girl is being bitchy to you for NO reason, it ruins your game. I can't stand trying to be and sweet under those circumstances, I might as well say remain chill and smoothly tell them a thing or two to put them in their place and then tell them they're wasting my time and ignore them if they don't confirm themselves back to me. People say to not argue because it doesn't solve anything but when you say a thing or two to set them straight and THEN you ignore, at least she'll have something to think about.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 1:29 am 
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I think for first girl you gave her a free compliment instead of a neg, while she was being bitchy for asking you why. also i think that you are seeking her approval when saying i commented on your facebook. you could have said i was trying not to but you looked so wild. second girl i don''t know what that was an opener? or seeking approval?


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I didn't seek approval, I let her know about it because she doesn't really check her facebook, she was away on mobile.

Second girl was a girl that is neither a friend nor gf. We dated but I left her because we would always argue. I came back last week and we began to talk. And not seeking approval, in my mind I'm just being straightforward and mature with her basically saying, "wow you're cool..."


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Girls who are always bitchy, are just bitchy to get attention, especially ones who say they're bitches. They are usually miserable and just try to make everyone else miserable with them. To them any reaction, positive or negative is attention. Don't play their game.


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Yes, but the goal is to get the girl whether she's bitchy or nice-at least for me. If I walk away, it shows that I'm a pussy who didn't step up to the challenge. I've thought of a special way though. Stepping up to their game, winning it with a few words, then leaving. Most people just take on the challenge but they keep on going on and on with the bitchy girl. Even if you replied with a lame comeback and still left after that, it still gives her the impression that, "I already won, on to another."

The goal is to make her feel sorry/make her suck up to you or confirm herself.

I say things like, "Haha...you're just like all the other girls." and then walking away. I used that before and she came back saying, "I'm not like other girls!"

You brought up a good point about any action and them wanting attention. By giving them attention (good attention that makes them think of you) and then taking that AWAY, would create a sense of coming back for it..but with a nicer attitude. It's like training a dog lol


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Yes, but the goal is to get the girl whether she's bitchy or nice-at least for me. If I walk away, it shows that I'm a pussy who didn't step up to the challenge. I've thought of a special way though. Stepping up to their game, winning it with a few words, then leaving. Most people just take on the challenge but they keep on going on and on with the bitchy girl. Even if you replied with a lame comeback and still left after that, it still gives her the impression that, "I already won, on to another."

The goal is to make her feel sorry/make her suck up to you or confirm herself.

I say things like, "Haha...you're just like all the other girls." and then walking away. I used that before and she came back saying, "I'm not like other girls!"

You brought up a good point about any action and them wanting attention. By giving them attention (good attention that makes them think of you) and then taking that AWAY, would create a sense of coming back for it..but with a nicer attitude. It's like training a dog lol
Im loving that comment. Its not aggressive or submissive.

Get in, say it, then get out. Will keep that in mind.


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That's what kills them and makes them come back. If you ignore them, there's barely any chance they'll come after you if they're one of those insecure bitches who thinks (omg, he's ignoring me, no reaction! let's go after him) But when you're older, the bitches are smarter and could care less. If you say a thing or two and then leave it irritates the hell out of them and makes them think "how dare does he play my game for a little bit, then leaves thinking he won?" And so they have no choice but to be nicer when they come back.

When you deal with bitches, you must be a bitch as well, but a better bitch. By that I mean getting down to their level by taking on their challenge while also being more mature and less serious about it than they are.

A girl said I had a small dick while holding her pinky up. "Your dick is as small as my pinky." I laughed and said with a grin, "No no hun, it's from your pinky to your chin." And then turning my back. Worked like a charm since there were other people around. They were all like, "ohhhh!" And then she said another comeback." I turned back halfway slowly looking at her with the "haha you're so silly" look and waved my hand from side to side while nodding my head looking down. Shows that you're having more fun than they are, and also shows that you're better by leaving.

My major problem back then was that I would think of saying clever things back to them but they had NO EFFECT all because of my body language. I said them as if I was serious or angry about it and got me nowhere.

Now if the bitch is a smart talker who judges you and doesn't use witty remarks on you, then the best way to handle her would be with smart talk just basically judging her back once or twice and then leaving (still maintaining that less serious-than-her aura).


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I was talking to this one very ugly girl (I got in her personal space with my and my friends laughing). We teased her and stuff. After she left some hot girl asked me, "Is that your girlfriend?" With a sarcastic look to her face expecting me to put the ugly girl down or react. I said, "No." Then she said, "Oh ok because I saw all 3 of you pimping on her, what did you guys talk about?" I said, "Just normal stuff." Then she said, "Oh.." Then I said, "If it makes you feel any better, you could be next.." and then I winked at her and her friends started laughing and saying, "Ohhh!" Then I turned my back staying chill. Then she began to call me again to talk with me and we had a conversation.


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Ignoring a bitchy girl MAY get her to come to you and all but if you don't confront and put her mind to work so she'll feel sorry, chances are she'll never come back (just the way I see it). There are some bitchy girls out there that give me attitude. Here are some of my responses recently

Me: I commented on your facebook profile picture
Her: Why?
Me: Because you look dazzling in it
Her: Lmao who says that
Me: Be thankful I use a better vocabulary than most guys on you (at that point I thought wow so I compliment you and all and you're a bitch)
Her: If you say so
Me: I was just being nice but it turns out you're just being bitchy (oh you still want to continue being a bitch huh?)
Her: Lol, I'm a bitch to everyone
Me: I have more respect for someone who admits they were wrong. Whatever, c ya.

Another girl..
Me: Check out this trick, go to google translate and type this in and listen blah blah (cool beatbox sound made by the robot who translates words by the words typed in)
Her: Lol wtf, i don't have time.
Me: Hehe..I didn't say "now".

I don't know but when a girl is being bitchy to you for NO reason, it ruins your game. I can't stand trying to be and sweet under those circumstances, I might as well say remain chill and smoothly tell them a thing or two to put them in their place and then tell them they're wasting my time and ignore them if they don't confirm themselves back to me. People say to not argue because it doesn't solve anything but when you say a thing or two to set them straight and THEN you ignore, at least she'll have something to think about.

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Hi man!

if you get bitched out, respond immediately. Dont take shit from anybody. Do it in a polite way, by busting on them. 'hey, i am friendly, why do you act like a bitch?' Sometimes you will get them straight, sometimes not. When she gives a stupid answer, bring out the big guns and break her down relentlessly, but still non aggressively. Good standard aswers are: i think that is childish/pathetic or grow up or something like that. then walk away.

your answer doesnt hae to witty or something, just honest and to the point. If at that moment you think its childish behaviour, say childish. If you think its stupid, say that it is stupid and you had expected more. Its like you say yourself: care less. be able to distant yourself from it.

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Yes, but the goal is to get the girl whether she's bitchy or nice-at least for me. If I walk away, it shows that I'm a pussy who didn't step up to the challenge. I've thought of a special way though. Stepping up to their game, winning it with a few words, then leaving. Most people just take on the challenge but they keep on going on and on with the bitchy girl. Even if you replied with a lame comeback and still left after that, it still gives her the impression that, "I already won, on to another."

The goal is to make her feel sorry/make her suck up to you or confirm herself.

I say things like, "Haha...you're just like all the other girls." and then walking away. I used that before and she came back saying, "I'm not like other girls!"

You brought up a good point about any action and them wanting attention. By giving them attention (good attention that makes them think of you) and then taking that AWAY, would create a sense of coming back for it..but with a nicer attitude. It's like training a dog lol
Good stuff dude, sounds like you have a handle on bitches! (going to add some of this to my arsenal) They make good one nighters, but like in my earlier post bitches are bitches, hard to make a GF, LTR or a good FB out of them. They're just so damn negative and kill the fun after a short time.

Love the training a dog comment...classic! :lol:


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