First off we met on like November 8th we talked alot, we went out like a week later hung out with her and her friend, we flirted a little fun little wrestle game in her friends car as she drove. Later that Week we went to the movies, talked and hand flirted pretty much.. I think what really made things akward was that I told her I loved her a couple days later and she replied "You don't know me" right then I felt I ruined everything... because now when I bring up conversation with her all I will get is a one worded answer like.

Im fine, thats cool.. I really have to work my way into luring her into one I think I saying that ruined what we've had together.. or shes playing some hard to get crap..


Any ideas?

I'm 19... btw

i hate to say ask this question but ill say it anyway because i think most people reading this may ask this: did you really say you loved her?

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it

Nothing's ruined, chillax.

She pretty much stated the obvious, if she ment 'GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME" she'd say something different, like "GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME"
not the point tho, if it were you'd have gotten it.

You're getting in your own way assuming you ruined it and still not trying to pursue things further.

The answer to this one is quite simple:

You don't know if you ruined it till you try.

You shot yourself in the foot my friend. Telling a girl you love her after some innocent hand flirting? Come on now, don't let your emotions get the best of you.

Those short responses from her are a solid indication that it's a loss cause. But, it's all good, regroup and move on to the next target.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Do you always back off when it gets difficult?

no shame if you do, it's a community thing.

I did, and I regret it really. Love has alot of meanings really and she took the wrong one..

I have other girlfriends who say they love me but they are in relationships.

But, I'm just gonna play her off.. Go out with other chicks talk to other ones and see how this plays out.

If you chicken shit out now, why won't you chicken out the next time it gets difficult?

perfect moment to work on yourself, I'd say. IT'S THE REASON WHY YOU'RE HERE RIGHT?

What's the worst thing that could happen?
You'd learn something.

If you do decide to chicken out please ask yourself what that tells you about you? What would you have gained?

I still talk to her, but shes busy as hell since she lives like half n hour from me and shit gets complicated really.

All I read are excuses.


she's busy, doing what? sucking other dudes off?

Half an hour ISN'T far away.

read my previous post, never back off when it gets difficult.

Make a winner out of yourself.