so basically i was at a club and thought to myself hey, if ima gonna be the pua i wanna be i gotta take some risks and DO something. so i thought id start with something small like bumping girls. it went ok so i den moved on to the dance floor and butt bumping......you would think this would be ok but for some reason when i was doing it to this girl who was also freaking her friend, somehow i got stiff armed in the side of the head like a nfl football player. i walked away from that without showing any reaction but yo that really pissed me off and i fell off my focus for the rest of the night.

haha maybe you bumped a little too hard

You must have really invaded her personal space for her to elbow you in the head!

Next time, go dance next to her, make seductive eye contact and keep it, then take her hand and spin her around. Then drop her hand and make a pretend gesture that it was clammy (i've even playfully wiped my hand on her arm to get rid of the pretend clammyness in the past haha) but remember to wear a massive grin on your face after you do this, keep it playful!! You can then carry on dancing and having fun on the dancefloor, kino escalate whilst dancing, then stop dead and look her in the eyes. Take her hand and lead her from the dancefloor in an alpha fashion, go get a drink and isolate her in a different part of the club. Bingo!

-Soul

Being a PUA isn't about taking all risks, its about minimizing your chance to fail then taking the risk.

You can jump out of a plane and hope to live or you can take a parachute.

Bumping girls.... dumb idea, don't jump out of the airplane unarmed.

Well, you took a risk and got slammed.

If your risk had been to say Hi and you had failed, they would laugh at you, your risk was bigger, so the punishment of faillure was bigger too.

And therefor it was brave what you did

lol it wasnt too hard at all. More like a playful ima fun guy having the time of my life thing. They were kind of bitchy and stuck up, but i tried regardless

ehh =(