So I met this chick she just turned 21 I told her we should hangout bar/club sometime and she said she was down for whatever.

I guess what I am asking is do you think its better if I wait till the weekend to take her out? Or should I take her out during a weekday??

Also what do you guys think would be a better place to take her BAR/Club/Dinner?

What are her intersts?

The bar sounds good, but there may be some potential PUAs there, so I'd watch out.

Clubs... I don't like clubs, because the music is loud and it's hard to charm a girl. All she'll wanna do is grind or something.

No dinners. Dinners are a no no when it comes to the first and second "date". Unless you're already very experienced with this situation, a dinner will put too much pressure on you AND her. The SPAM will be nervous and just not good.

I would suggest more of a fun place where you two could talk and be somewhat intimate. Minigolf is the land of opportunities. No matter what age, minigolf will ALWAYS work. It gives you an excuse to touch her (Not molest her. The small of her back or something. xD) It also gives you a chance to talk to her without interruptions from other PUAs. Bowling is another good spot.

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I personally reccommend going to a bar on a weekday, there wont be too many people and the SPAM will be chilled out and comfortable. Try going around 4, before the big after-work rush. I've gotten with 2 younger girls who turned 21 this way, it's been effective for me. Just make sure you dont bore her.

I'm a part time bartender myself so it was a really easy pickup for me both times, I was in my home turf, so I used my knowledge of cocktails to impress them. I also made some dumb jokes like " there's a drink called a black russian"
"really"
"yeah I have you ever seen one?
"nope"
"hm you're right, I've never seen one of those either"

Well i'd say a cup of coffee. this girl asked me out first date to a bubble tea my AFC days but i mean it worked.

What do you guys think about taking her to a house party? She knows some of the people that will be attending. I am going to call her tonight regardless since she just gave me her # yesterday.

Well if you set the frame that you both are dating.. you can run some awesome game there i think it is a great idea. you can be talking to her friends not be very available will make her want you even more

Yeah, do that......great social proof, and it's less one on one so if it gets uncomfortable it's an easy out

help! Ok so I called her she did not pickup so I sent her a text saying hi and who I was. She called me like 1-2 hours later!! I did not pick up! That or I mistakenly hit the ignore button on my phone which automatically fowards the call lol!! I tried to call her back and she did not pickup this was like 3 min after she called me though!!!

I'm confused in what to do now lol!