Well, I personally believe that you are taking things too slow. I know you guys are in high school, but man... I can see your friendzone issue coming up fast.
Then again... High school is almost entirely different from the real world. When I was in high school (last year xD), I took things way too slow as well. I had 3 girlfriends in high school. So you COULD theoretically keep on doing what you're doing: taking things slow; building up to the moment that you first touch her hand; etc.
Here's the approach that I would recommend:
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by the end of the study break me her friend and her were having a "grand" time.
She should feel somewhat comfortable with you now. You don't want her to feel TOO comfortable, otherwise she'll treat you more as a best friend instead of something geared towards intimacy.
The next time you see her, break the touch barrier. Don't grab her ass, but inconspicuously touch her hand or her shoulder or somewhere else that's "innocent"; she wont suspect your intentions if you keep things innocent.
Ex: If you're at lunch and you're thirsty. Tell her to accompany you to the vending machine. When she gets up, grab her hand (NOT the death grip) and gently guide her to the vendings. Trust me when I say she will be thinking a LOT bout you grabbing her hand.
Ex 2: (This should ONLY be done if you're experienced and a smooth talker) This is a risky move because it's a make or break type of deal. If you get this to work, you've just made it and it's smooth sailing all the way through. If it's unsuccessful, there may be a period of awkwardness between the two of you. Now, say she gets up to go to the vending machine with you. Put you hand on the small of her back as you walk. She may look at you weird, but as long as she doesn't push your hand away, she likes it. The key is to feel comfortable when you do this. If you act all nervous, she'll think of you as a creeper. If she feels comfortable with your hand on your back, you've done it. You should know what to do next. (Nothing perverted or you'll ruin a good plan).
So why is it important to break the touch barrier? It will make her feel sexy. You NEED to make her to feel sexy if you don't want to be just friends. It's a requirement. Touch is much easier at accomplishing this than talking, thus why I'm recommending touch to you.
Remember! The KEY is to feel comfortable around your surroundings. Your state of mind WILL affect hers.
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