Got a text from a booty call of mine asking me if im free the 24th, 25th or 26th of this month. She lives pretty far away so we have to usually plan our meets instead of just riding over there at the end of a long night for a night cap.

You guys feel as if this is a plan to get me to spend the holidays with her, maybe as an opportunity to move beyond our relationship right now into something more? I've already told her that we couldn't be anything more than sex friends because of the distance and she seemed fine with it. Also, she has a boyfriend. Im not stupid enough to ever inquire about how well that's going and just leave it alone.

I REALLY dont want any sort of a relationship with any girl right now, so do you guys think this step one of her diabolical plan to start something serious with me? If so, should I try and preserve what we have or just roll out asap?

Im not the kind of guy to get too into women on that level, years and years of being hurt playing the nice guy hardened me to this and I actually prefer it now. She's a decent fuck but she is far away, so it's only logical we keep our relationship strictly to sex since im rarely in her neighborhood as it is.

You assume she wants a relationship.....it's also called being paranoid.

Chillax, once she's trying to make clear she wants a relationship you can either go with it or cop out.

Whatever you want.

p.s.

Sounds like you have difficulties opening yourself to other people.

You should look into that