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PostPosted: Sun Dec 05, 2010 7:09 pm 
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Texting "Ok, in a bit ... but just so you know, i'm not gonna do the text all the time thing if were never gonna see/meet each other" was probably not the best idea my friend. Its sounds like you are getting frustrated and getting annoyed with her. Which is a turn off.

What I would of put is:
Ok, in a bit ... Hey look, tomorrow (or the next day shes free that you know of) I was planing on going up to (place) and you should join me, I'm a little busy tomorrow though so we wont have to long to spend together.
I am getting annoyed with her! And at some point I have to be a man and tell her whats up... do i not?

But anyway, what's done is done. What should I do now?


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She hasn't texted me since I sent her the meeting up text. Should I wait it out a few days or send her a text now or what? and what should I say?


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I actually had a girl call me out as a player in Ibiza, I laughed and said "Nah, I'm no player, I don't roll like that" and she actually said "That's too bad, I LOVE players" and walked off, I was just stood there dumbfounded and confused as fuck.
Because it was a shit test and you failed. Every guy will deny being a player if called out.


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She hasn't texted me since I sent her the meeting up text. Should I wait it out a few days or send her a text now or what? and what should I say?

Give it a week before you do anything else.

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Instead of "how beautiful u could said "how wild"or throw in but beauty is common after how beautiful more playful.ALSO u wanna be interesting don't tell her what it meant when they followed u to the car!!. for example u say "i met this girl at a club she told me that she wanted some excitement and wanted to go to my house i was so hammered so i said ok... she was so nice she made me breakfast the next morning"SEE I'm implying that i had sex that night I dun need to tell her that i had sex.. YOU imply things not tell them straight what you just said meant that's more interesting and keep em guessing what u guys did

I hope this isn't DESTRUCTIVE criticism


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I have never had stories work in text, any one else agree that stories need to be very calibrated and conservative? I find that shooting a text just as long as her responses work best.


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She hasn't texted me since I sent her the meeting up text. Should I wait it out a few days or send her a text now or what? and what should I say?

Give it a week before you do anything else.
OK.

You sure she wont give up on me by then?


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I have never had stories work in text, any one else agree that stories need to be very calibrated and conservative? I find that shooting a text just as long as her responses work best.
I haven't either. Whenever I use a DHV story, the chick is always like "...ok?"


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Anyone else willing to give some advice? Here's the update:

I was of her ditching the day 1 so when she asked me to call her 2 nights ago I said: "Ok, in a bit ... but just so you know, i'm not gonna do the text all the time thing if were never gonna see/meet each other" ... and then she responded "Ok...." and I didn't respond because I didn't hear my phone and 5 minutes after that text she sent "Actually i'm gonna go to bed. goodnight"

So thats where were at right now. I've read a lot about chicks trying to turn guys into "text buddies" and I didn't want that to happen with this one. Was I wrong about sending her that message? Should I text her something today if she doesn't text back? She hasn't texted me in 2 days now which is weird for her


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@TheFresh-You're so right about humor,C&F not carrying over well via text.

I cant count how many times I'd text a girl a supposed-to-be c&f line and then have the girl not text bacc.

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Well just to add i tried this twice and it worked perfectly. i text the target : "" saw a girl at a club who looked exactly like her, my buddy told me that she was looking at me, later that night she came up to me and said hi so we talked... before i was about to leave she gave me her card and she said find me." then usually girl asks what you talked about and what's she like i usually say shes doing accounting or something better than my target is doing and compare the two


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