Yesterday I closed 2 kc's.
But I have 3 problems and one question:
1.I was getting rejected a lot!
While my friend wasn't and it's embarrassing (I brought him to the pickup) - the girls see the rejection and then it's a DLV.
2.My friend helped me to get the 2 KC's so I feel depressed that I can't get them on my own.
3.I am depressed, I know that everyone say that to get rejected is good but, it's still hurt me somewhere.
4.How not to get depressed after serging? It happens to me and my friends almost all the time.



What do you suggest to do.

Thanks,
Trovao.

loosen up a bit and have a "take it or leave it attitude"

juding from your message,
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Thanks,
Trovao.
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you seem a little formal and trying to fix everything and make it perfect. nothings ever perfect. go in knowing no ones perfect and just do it to have fun. don't think about your past. every time you talk to another chick, use that as a starting point. don't let the history bother you. youve used your history, you learned from it. thats all its useful for. don't bother getting emotional

I sugest you to keep getting rejection until you get good.ofc at the beginning your ego can low sometimes, but things will come naturaly and you wont feel so shit, i remember being depressed, and sometimes my game is off and i become a bit frustated, but its a learning experience-

Nobody said this was easy, but there will the rewards

Dont take it too seriously it was one night, somedays you are top of the game other you are not. if he help you what the probelm that why you brogh him to pickup he is a good wingman he helps you and shit so who cares who is better. there will be times that you are going to help him get girls and he is the one getting all the rejections.

Sometimes it only take one rejection and then our state of mind goes to negative phase and this can ruin the entire night so dont worry perfeclty normal.


Just loosen up and try to have fun, you are engaging ppl not to kiss girls but to have fun and meet ppl and to have blast, and then while you are doing that you find a girl that you wanna hook up.

How not to get depressed after sarging? Easy pick a girl to your house F-closed

Every time before I go out I go through a routine while im getting dressed.
I tell myself in the mirror.
No matter what happens you will be okay.
You will learn.
You will get better.
You will have a good time.
You are the king of your reality.

I find when im constantly downing myself I do worse. Having ADHD makes this and almost everything else in my life a pain sometimes so ive experienced depression too. But honestly rejection from random people is not that bad you need to remind yourself this. You will go through much worse things further down the road so if you cant handle this the relationship phase will be tougher for you. Just focus on developing your positive inner game. open yourself up to new possibillities. Dont down yourself.

What helps me with my inner game before I go out is I do the stylelife challenge hypnosis thing. Lol. Do you have the stylelife challenge? Look it up his advice is pretty good.

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aiden k. baker

I have experienced feeling down after sarging in the past.

The key is to stop taking it so seriously and stop worrying so much about the outcome. Enjoy the process and have fun. Experiment. Say to yourself: "I wonder how that chick will react if I say this..."

Just have fun and in time the success will come. Becoming a good PUA is hard work. It takes practice, commitment, time and patience. Remember that 200,000 girls turn 18 everyday so no need to rush. Relax and take your time with the knowledge that it will eventually happen.

Don't give up. There is a reason 90% of men are AFC's. Its because they gave up.

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Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think

BRO U HAD THE FUCKEN BALLZ TO APPROACH. think about it not many guys can do what u just did and u've learned from those rejections. When i feel depressed i usually play video games to get my head out of it

This is like any other form of sales - it's a numbers game. Over the years, I've worked out my averages for different places and days. There is a certain club in Atlanta that is 100% on a certain night - if I don't reel something in here, I did something very wrong. There is a bar in Orlando that is 25% - pretty sketchy at best. I won't go anywhere that runs less than 25%.

Understand that your success rate is directly related to your attempt rate. It will usually take 2-3 attempts at the Atlanta place to pull it in. You could run 15 attempts at the Orlando place and still go home alone.

Remember, a lot of the rock stars in the PU game are douches with low standards. If you're willing to scrape the bottom of the barrel, you'll win every time.