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I have learned to do the following SOOO smoothly;
1* Approaching
2* Getting the number
3* Getting the kiss.
But as soon as i have gotten the kiss, things **** UP.
- in my earlier days 9-14 yrs, i was VERY unsocial, because i was obese, so i kind of isolated my self, and therefor did not learn to run a propper conversation. This has come to a HUGE disadvantage for me SPAM.
So i would like to get some GREAT Tips on runing a conversation, and how to sexually escalate, and go for the lay.
If anyone can give me some tips, i would appreciate it SOOO Much!
Thank you in advantage!
Hi man!
Great tips for conversation eh... well first of, genuine interest is a nice context. You can take interest and still fuck. Just be aware of the 'feelings' trap.
But genuine interest is a way to go. You ask her questions that interest you. For me personally, i like to know what makes people tick, if there is something in their life that makes them tick. And i ask about it. Since i am really interested, i can ask interesting questions about it. I dont take bullshit for an answer. I am following Juggler here, i am trying to find something unique about this person.
As for escalation. There really isnt an exact recipe for escalation.
All you need is balls to take the initiative, the rest is improvisation. Start by light kino, see the reaction. Its important to see if she really does not want to do this. Have respect for it. There will be resistance, just take a step back then go again slowly. If she escalates the resistance, stop. Have respect, the lady doesnt want to. i stress, light kino, no boobs, ass or inner legs/pussy area. you can slowly go there while you are kissing. Kissing is important here.
consider these as general guidelines, not a guide to get layed. Improvise. The most important part in here is having the balls to at least take the initiative.
lots of luck!
ciao