So my girlfriend and we got into a huge fight since i know my girlfriend when she is on berseker mode the best thing i have to do is to leave her, after she told me some stupid things I pick up my things and left 10m later she starts calling I dont answer after three times she sents me a text saying its over and to not contact ever (a bit dramatic) . So I called her and said if you going do this , lets do this properly face to face not a text she said no no but i convince her.

So I go to met her she is mad saying that is Over and its done bla bla so i try to calm things unreactive and shit and tell her ok and tyring to reason with her but since she is on period and also mad as hell i tell her ok and dont touch the subject since she was leaving the house i waited for her and when we were going apart she starts looking at me asking me where im going, and if I need a ride very worried about me. She then sent me txt a couple hours later asking me if im home and if everthing is good and shit and then calls me later asking if I reach home.

Im going to do the no contact rule. but what the hell not normal right?

well 1 month. in her mind and i dont understand if she thinks we broke up or not.

as someone put it in another thread, discourage bad behavior by ignoring it and encourage good behavior

Hobbit exactly. She sent me txt i didnt respond and then she calls me liKE nothing happened, and i was like didnt we broke , and she said yes but we talked " which we didnt or was confused since she was mad and we screamed more that we talked" And then se continues with the most trivial topic ever.


The fight was about me being lazy and not helping her and not studying bla bla. She is also in alot of pressure at work and also we had a little problem while having intercourse, so she had to use the "next day pill" and then she is on her period, so i get this is normal