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Well, it goes against my personal morals (You acted like an asshole and she had a BF anyway, I'd leave her well alone) but whatever it worked for you.
What were you trying to achieve with the Day 2 anyway, I sorta missed the point of why you were in a Suit and then went to McDonalds, I mean your mindset was right in a way, you want to make it look like your always busy and you are taking time out to see her, but what you did seemed like a long winded way of doing it and probally lowered your value to her aswell.
Next point is the Boyfriend thing, now I don't personally continue if I find out they have a BF but I know some peeps do and well she cheated on him aswell so theres even blame. However, again you told her that her boyfriend was a total loser and you wern't, you shoulden't have to tell her at all, it should be a conclusion that she comes to, again you lowered your value to her by insulting her taste in men.
I assume by the last part that you slightly regret doing this and that's good, I don't want to make it seem like I'm ragging on you because and I'll be honest here, I almost did the same with a friend ex-girlfriend about a month after they broke up and they'd been together years, so I know how guilty it made me.
But I would definatly move on to the next one unless she definatly breaks up with her bf and you can tell her that you can't continue anything til she does, that'll raise your value to her, and let her contact you first. Remember theres plenty of others out there and welcome to the community.
Hi.
Now, i am also not here to put somebody down, but personally i think this boyfriend thing is bullshit. Like the movie quote: every man decides his own destiny. She wants to cheat on her boyfriend, let her cheat. No matter how hard the seduction hits, it is eventually she who has to make the decision. And for all i can see, her words did not really mean that much. She was all to happy to cheat, and so she should if that is what she truly desires. Besides, a boyfriend in one country while living in another, you would have to be the pope to keep that up.
i do agree with you on the insult thing. thats just... you know... childish. I dont get what i want so i ll insult it. Oh well, whats done is done. Better next time.
And yes, the answer to your poll is NEXT!! This is what seduction and PU is all about. its a paradox. Its not about feelings but you cant do it without them. You need to be able to put a distance in your emotions. There is only one way you can control seduction and that is by admitting that is has control over you. In that way, you can make the gap, the distance that is necessary to succeed. Next!!! and for all you know, she will be back. Or she wont.
its not that you shouldnt care. you want her to come back. But its ok if she doesnt. NEXT!!!!
keep it up.
ciao
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