Hi,
First of all. This is my first post here. I am ok looking 26-year-old guy from the Europe.I have a bit experience with David DeAngelo methods , I have read Styles Book, some other bodylanguage books and watched some videos how to handle woman. I am also "natural" in my opinion and I can talk with girls without fearing anything etc. I broke up with my ex like 2 years ago and there has been few girls after that but it was like sex and then I decided to quit or a girl decided to go on.
I made some critical mistakes lately but I was a bit depressed or something so I wasnt in good mood to pick up or anything. But at this point I feel good and I am confident enough to do something here and thats why I am writing this post.
So, I met a super beaty and hot girl at the night club. I was just dancing there ( sober) and having fun. I was sitting there and shout: " but where is my future wife!!?? Then my friends girlfriend wanted to pick a girl for me, or "helped" to find some. To be honest she didnt help at all. Its possible that she did some girlstuff that I didnt understand. In the end I was alone and finally I found her. She was sitting and watching ppl dancing. I decided to do something there.
At first I made sure that she was interested and took an eyecontact. She really invites me with her eyes so it was easy dedicion. I walk to her and said:
me: You seem to be only people here who is not too drunk.
she: yeah, I am having a party with my job buddies why you are here?
me: Just a special guest star, but got few friends here.
she: I Love to see people dancing with a happy face blbalblalblalba..
after 10 minutes we shaked hands and she told her name. ( she did it , not me)
Then we danced and she gave her hand to me. We were having some funny time. Then clock was too much and It was like 30 minutes before nighclub closes. She was going to home and I didnt want to push. I just decided to walk with her to the busstation. It was ok.
Right before bus came I asked her to drinnk a coffee with me and she snapcalled.
I called her next day but she didnt answer
:O
I text her next day and she answered. She wanted to chat via msn of facebook and then we chatted at the msn.
I was too excited and we talked a lot. I was typing too fast. She was talking about her ex but said that she dont want anything but friendship with him etc ( she started), I was asking questions and started lines and lead the convertation and she follows.
Then I asked her to the concert of Sean Paul but she declined.
She was texting back to me and one was at the very early morning like 7 am and told that she was sleeping etc.
2 days has been past and she wont answer text/calls and is not online in msn anymore.
I decided to send her a text:
I`ll buy a human sized calendar for you at the x-mas.
No answer
Next txt yestarday:
It would be better that we cancel our "dates"? Please dont call me anymore as this is my workphone and there will be some other who answer the phone. You can find me at the msn if you got something to say. ( this was true)
No answer
I know that I blew it up, but whats the biggest "leak"? What I need to change? Is there anything I can do here ( I dont want to be a clown at this point) Any other ideas? She seem to be more like a "housewife" material then a snake one but at this point I thinks shes more like a snake
ps. I was using a bit of cocky comedy (which is acutally my style of humour before I saw David DeAngelo`s material. I was smooth but impulsive. She was saying "sorry" for me many times for not been available. Lean to me when we talked, was smiling a lot, some lady gestures like showing her wrists, touching hair etc.
Please help me, so I can move on and clear my head.
CHAT