Ok my girlfriends friend is always flirting. Here lately she has been cutting it kinda close. Sometimes she will flirt while my gfs around but makes it un noticeable. Like Putting her boobs against me, or leaning on me, reasting her head on my shoulder ,etc. Now, the other morning my gf left to got to work and we were the only ones at her house. Both laying in different a bed, it was a week day so no one would be home for hours. I was thinking about asking her to fix my collar for work, because while she was showering I was getting dressed. She opened the door to hand me some q tips and only showed me her hand hiding behind the door because she wasnt dressed yet. She did that twice. But I never got a glimpse. "Foggy mirror"

But do I have stuff to play off of, what would be a good way to initiate that if we are alone. How could I say, "so are we gonna hook up or what?" Thank you! I hope you can help me...

You need to do something like ask her to do your tie or fix your collar and just make deep eye contact when she's doing it and up close. If you notice IOIs, lean in. I'd try to make her initiate the kiss though so you can fall back on that if your burd finds out.

Yeah that sounds pretty good man, what if she wants to back out right after something happens?

I'd do what shawnmichaels suggested

Only way I can help you is to tell you to stop being a chode. You have a girlfriend, you know, that person you made a commitment to and who clearly trusts you by leaving you with another female in your presence with out her being there. You either want to be with her or you dont. No one wants to be strung along and have their heart broken.

"if you like it, you shoulda put a ring on it"

this

Dude, you realize you're on a PUA forum right?

Yea, a community and brotherhood where guys come together to help out one another of their difficulties with women. Everyone has goals for doing this, whether its to find that one special girl to start a family with to having a bunch of one night stands. By no means you should be walking all hippy dippity damaging women. Being a man and being straight forward will get you better results then some routine based gimmick marketed by wannabe instructors 8 weeks out of a bootcamp with promises of herums and 10 second blowjobs that fucks with the mindset of impersonal new guys.

1) Do you realy want to cheat on your girlfriend? You're not more alfa if you say "I don't care what she thinks I am fucking horny and want to fuck her friend". Btw, the other girl is your gf's friend: that might bring shit, remember that. If you think it's a superficial relationship and you don't care about your gf's feelings: go ahead, fuck her friend by any means!

2) You could already have fucked her friend by now! How did you get your girlfriend if you don't know how you should seduce and fuck her friend?

I mean, she flirts with you, touches you, rest her head on your shoulder ( mostly= an it's on moment), she is totally ok with you being inside the bathroom while she is taking a shower ... ? Com'on!

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This is just my personal opinion, and I ain't judging anyone. But I believe a PUA should respect relationships, not only HIS relationships but OTHERS' as well.

Secondly, fucking ones' girlfriend's friend may not make one all that PUA, but may be rather AFC actually and is probably the thing AFCs do all the time to feel like studly "play'ahs" to brag about to their friends afterward. Because it's easy, the groundwork has already been laid out. It's the kind of thing AFC's do to increase their 'score' count without ever actually having to work at anything or get better. Personally, I wouldn't bang a serious GF's BFF. And if one didn't fuck her friend even if he could have, she'll probably always be there if you and your girl breakup.

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Exactly!

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When I made this post I didnt think about the way it was going to sound, but if you knew what me and that girl have been through you all might be saying different.

Then grow some balls and break up with her.
You do realize that if you bang her friend, she is almost certainly going to find out. It's not going to be kept a secret. If that's the way you want to break up with her, then you don't have the willpower or guts to do it yourself, which is the real problem.

to the OP.

you, sir, are a douchebag.

picking up girls is NOT the same as asking for advice on how to be a heartbreaking, cheating, piece of shit.

jesus. some days, i swear......