So I went to this sorority initiation night last night where I met this girl that I work with. She approached me and gave me a big hug and we started talking, I would say she's a 7. I tell her that if I see her again then she owes me a dance to which she says yes. I go dance with this other girl, and after that I see this same girl from earlier again. I ask her to dance to which she says yes. Then one of her friends pulls her away and say its time to leave. She seems sad, but says goodbye. I see her again and she says she came back so we dance again, and yet another friend says that its time for her to leave and pulls her away. I get her number first though.

A little bit later through text, I invite her to my roommate birthday party at my place which is tonight and she said yes.

I guess my question is what exactly should I do at this party with her? It's only going to be about 15 people so kinda small. I don't have my own room because I sleep on the couch in the living room. Should I focus all of my attention on her or what?

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Any suggestions?

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just go with the flow
obviously she has enough interest in you that she is coming to your party and all.
don't focus all your attention on her... just "party it up" and socialize with all your friends first.
make sure you demonstrate higher value and make yourself look like the alpha male among the group

then later on, start talking to her.. you can isolate her to another room

Well, she ended up not coming over last night, she said she was busy. I had fun though at our place because we had about 25 people over and it got crazy.

I did end up seeing her later that night when I left the party at my place and went to another. We ended up dancing again and made out for a good while. Her friend pulled her away again though. I then made out with another girl literally right after she left that I feel kind of bad about, but I guess I'm not tied down to her.

I sent her a text and she never responded back. Its been over ten hours so I'm guessing she's not going to text. So should I text her again?

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i would leave it a day or two or wait till you see her at work. the issue is her mates. they have maid it healthy obvious they dont approve and have possibly been trying to put her off you. this happens, its not your fault. there are some anti-cockblocking routines but they dont always work lad.

i wouldnt confront it till you have made out again, make a joke of it straight after saying you were just waiting for her buddy to burst in and pull her away. this kinda makes her acknowledge it. there may be a good reason, there may not. been in that situation myself before a few times. hugely frustrating.

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