Last week I met this girl, we talked a little bit, on the second encounter I got her number and kissed her on the cheek, next day I call her, we joked and we agreed going out this saturday (dec 4th).

I want to call her just to say hi or talk a little bit more but I don't want to risk losing any progress I have done so far. Should I wait until saturday or should I call her?

Suggestions please.

Personally, I'd call her sometimes, a random call isn't a bad thing, keep it biref, be polite and maybe have a little joke. Wont do any harm, if anything, she'll look forward to your date even more!

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Wait until Saturday!

-Roz

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Try sending her a casual text (just the one though) and then leave it to her to get back in touch with you.

I called her. I made some jokes, we talked for 8 minutes, I will see her tomorrow at a fairy or something, she said she did not want any problem with my girlfriend, I said 'you are just going to talk to me' and did not answer if I had a girlfriend or not (I don't have).

There was a taxi strike so we had to wait until saturday to go out but it seems now they are working again.

So I think everything went fine.

Thanks for your help.

Well done, see, no harm! Enjoy saturday, let us know how it goes.

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I went to the fairy (with amusement park) yesterday, she was working in a stand selling necklaces and stuff, we talked a bit, then her cousin came, we ride two games and drank a beer, I made some kino (touch her arm and hands tried the face but she push my hand away). She asked me where we were going tomorrow (today), I said that to some nice place.

I feel that she is making barriers or I am doing something wrong, I am not sure if she is attracted enough, also I think I have not qualified her at all.

I have not thought what qualities should I to ask for, I don't think we have much in common.

suggestions?

I'd say go with the flow, maybe a small shit test, don't look at it as her putting up barriers yet.

Just go out, be yourself, have fun, how you normally would, evaluate from there on.

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I left work at 12, the girl and I were supposed to go at 3pm, so I went to her store to ask if everything was as planned, she told me that her mother did not give her permission to go (she is 24, it has to be an excuse, a lie). I said ok and left. Her boss was there and it is a real witch bitch, 73 years old, bitter as hiel.

So I won't call her back, I guess. There is a big celebration coming, the Virgen Purisima Griteria, Dec 7th, she mentioned yesterday that if she could not go today we still could go to the Griteria (translated Shout or Yell), hundreds or thoudsands of people go to the streets to chat to the Virgin (the mother of Jesus), ...

I need advice about the frame of mind I must have here, ... call her, wait or dissappear?

Thanks

Girls flake, now it's how you deal with it that matters.

My opinion, wait for her to call, then you dictate her and set up things according to yourself. When/where you meet etc.

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Try and save face, I would keep her on the back burner.
But if you do go out with her again, you gotta kiss her man or she'll just get frustrated.
With my last girl friend (first date) I just looked into her eye's for 5 secs... and said "you know what I think" and she'll say "what?" then you say "I would really like to kiss you right now".

feel free to throw some but's in there:
-but I'm emotionally torn right now.

-but this room is too crowded.

Her eyes will immediately goes down and away and she might feel a little shy.
Or she might get ready to say something. Ignore it all and GO IN for the kiss.

Just go in and hold it, then softly put your hands on the back of her head and she will be going mental. Her brain will stop working, she will calm down. And that will be the climax of her night. After that moment you can call her every day all day