In my last post I approached 16 moving sets and opened and engaged 13 out of them with no failure at all, the rest of the 3 sets didn’t recognize that I was there asking something(for detailed version read my last post)

New day new experience I approached 7 sets failed in each of them miserably, I did it in a crowded street market. Today my wing was not me; he is more of a moral supporter than a wing as we never dealt with a set together. As I was alone today my approach anxiety was on peak and the first set I approached didn’t even recognize that I was saying some thing-I should have been authoritative and loud but I was not self confident

Next thing I did was instead of asking for opinion as a researcher I simply asked what was the time? To a moving 5-6 set, one replied that she doesn’t know the time and I was not able to notice others in the set-I don’t know what I could have done.

I asked the time and I was given the reply but in no way it was morale boosting as I have accomplished so much in my last field experience that I felt that I got a demotion that I am struggling to even ask the time

I approached a moving 3 set asked that I want a opinion for research and the reply I got was we are getting late with every approach and failure my confidence was dropping what I didn’t realize was with every approach and failure my body language is getting less confident and hence more failures. What I was not realizing was that I am not supposed to take these failures personally the reason for my failure is that I seem like every other guy but if I succeed then credit goes to me as I showed that I am different. But keeping yourself positive is easy to say very difficult to do it will all come with practice

If you are unaware of the mystery method or haven’t read game you might not understand what I was trying to do in this approach .As I went to approach the moving set to ask time I kept moving and crossed them while asking the time to show DHV but as they turned back I was still walking with my face towards them they found it weird and didn’t bother to tell the time

After all this I eventually approached a 3set as a researcher asked their opinion they weren’t comfortable with me as I was not comfortable with my self

My last and the most humiliating approach of the day was when I approached the set as a researcher and got all nervous and started stammering thus demonstrating lower value the girls were not at all interested they gave their opinion and didn’t even give me the time to ask their age which was necessary for the so called research I gave up then and there as with every approach I was getting worse, as with every failure I was getting demoralized and it clearly reflected in my body language

Lesson learnt-
Every thing we do in the field is a reflex as every thing is spontaneous when in a set whatever you learn will show in your reflex in next approach as you can’t do a single thing that seems to conscious/unnatural otherwise you will freak them out cause they will realize something is wrong. Just be spontaneous

Positive and happy frame of mind the only way of success as it reflects on your body language

If you are trying you will improve and will eventually have a life of dignity and integrity,if you give up you are going no where and the bad experiences will haunt you all your life

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